I have been in relationship with a guy from last one year. Most of our relationship we have lived in different cites due to pandemic. He stops talking to me for days and when I ask he used to say that he was busy with work. I mean I understand we all have work pressure but when you are in a relationship you can’t just think about self. I am also working and I have had bad days at work myself but I never took it an excuse to cut him out of my life. He had done this (stopping to talk and talking again) so many time in this year, that now it has stopped bothering me. He stopped talking to me a month back and I didn’t even feel his absence from my life this time (earlier I used to affect me badly). I don’t know if it makes me a bad person, I think I no more have feelings left for him.
Sneha Anand @sneha08
I know, long distance relationship sucks and it’s so difficult to manage, most of the time. I myself was in a relationship with a guy and we used to see each other few times.
Honestly, I don’t really think that it makes you a bad human, it just makes you human. I wish I could be like you. ❤️🌈
I feel its totally alright for u to feel like this. Long distance relationships can often be messy. Everyone has their good times n their bad times. If he stopped talking to u, I suggest u move on n doing it does’nt make u a bad person in any way 👍. But yes before taking any step think of everything very level headedly for some time in everything will be fine.
Hey there.
I don’t know whether I am the right person to address you or not. But I loved a girl the way you have narrated. She used to spend time with her collics, her friends, party out late at night. I even gifted her a BMW. We used to share my home. We had an argument 3 days back over her ignoring me over others, and she broke up with me and walked out. Now, when she goes out, she is realizing that no one calls her anymore to take care, to come back early. She doesn’t has a driver to bring her back home safely when she is drunk. Her mom, called me to take care of her, but I refused gently as she was being over possessive. The fact I learned is, when you are on a hill, you never feel you are at something beautiful. You notice the holes, the trenches and the faults. You only realise it’s beauty, when you are far off from it. Have a good Day.
You can always reach out to me. I am commenting from my friend’s account. If you read this, and feel useful, I will connect with you if you further need to get over this.
