I have been in a dilemma, I have liked this person for a long time now. A lot of things have happened in the past good bad from both of our sides.
But those things aside the current situation is that I am sure what kind of relation we are having.
The relation has a little bit of intimacy. But I’m never sure what the other person wants, many time it feels the person is just with me because there is no one else right now and just to cope up with that. So if someone comes, the person would prolly leave and because we are not in any official thing, the person don’t think they have any liability or commitment to do in this regard.
I don’t like this feeling. But I can’t leave. I am way too attached to exit.
I don’t know what to do.
Naina Talwar @no_one8
Try distancing yourself from that person. Initially, it might seem tough, but you have to be consistent, and over time, the feelings and the memories will begin to fade away, maybe not completely, but enough to distract your thoughts off rhe person. And also the thought that any person is replaceable, that thought will be a savior, even if you don’t actually replace that person. And also, try to keep yourself busy with things you like to distract thoughts of them… All the best buddy!
Kiara @divine_room_3
Tbh if you don’t do it today , and in future he will leave you for another person you will endeding up getting more hurt at last , try to protect yourself because no one else do it for you , on top of that you have to communicate with him how do you feel how this whole commitment things , having a closure is best in any relationship, you will know what his intentions are toward you , you are a brave and smart person , so don’t let me manipulate you
