I have been dating for few years now. After all these years of dating and relationships I finally want to settle for someone who would give enough time to me, will bear my tantrums, would pamper me. Now, I am 27 year old. I have fallen for a guy who is 20. He is studying medical. He definitely have no time. He promised that he will talk everyday but not everytime. Now overall my above demands can definitely not be fulfilled by him. But I really like him, and I am the one who confessed my feelings to him. Should I leave him or should I adjust?
You have few days back have asked a similar question. I suggest you stay connected with this guy. If you guys are serious, then take this relationship ahead. Else drop it. Decide for yourself. Speak to your parents and discuss with your guy while making a decision
I don’t think he will settle with you, rest it depends on him, but your age of settlement is near and he is very young, he will only settle with you if his love is true. But from your post I don’t think that he is into you, he is just giving you company, fall for someone who will give you everything, love care respect security etc … because your mindset is clear to settle down with someone, so don’t compromise. Whatever you are expecting just ask , if someone is not putting efforts, leave him. If you will adjust and ignore, you will be the one who will suffer.
