i have already wasted 2 months. im not going to college, haven’t made any friends yet. my class peeps are bonding quite well. but im here doing nothing. it’s because of some past mistakes of mine. im feeling low. i know ive changed for the better, but i still have this inferiority complex. im scared that people will judge me, im scared to even open up about things. i decided to go to college from next week, but there’s also fomo. main problem is fear of being judged. what do i do? what if i don’t find any good friends? i dont want to live sadly anymore. help please. you guys are all i have now.
and also there are some people whom i dislike and who dislike me as well. im just to fuked up right now.
Sanket @sanket
Friends are never found, they are meant to be made!
The primary purpose of college is to get educated. Go to college with this sole purpose. Assume everything else is an extracurricular activity. Focus on studies, and if you really have changed then apparently things will align for you. Staying at home will not result in anything but going to college will open up many possibilities.
Each one on this planet hates someone or gets hated by someone. You should only care about the people that are present in your small world.
Why do you think you would be judged?? And what makes you think other people are in the position to judge or validate you? See, the thing about humans is, they pretend to have everything in order. Trust me when I say this, I have met the most confident, cool, intelligent, social people and they are also insecure about something. This is how it is. You are nervous because you are placing people above you but it doesn’t happen this way, humans are humans, we are all dealing with something and we are all afraid of being judged. Just go for it, walk with confidence, you will find some lifelong friends in college and make worthy memories of life time.
