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I have a question. Ladkiyan agar working na bhi ho to chalega. Usko achaa working ladka mil jaata hai. Par agar ladka ,ladki se thoda kam bhi earn karta ho to usko ladki ke ghar waale kabhi accept nahi karte. Hum ladko ke saath aisa kyun hota hai ๐Ÿ˜‘ Ladko ki value paiso se kyun dekhi jaati hai ??
Need some perspective on this. I like a girl but her parents rejected me due to this. They are like my daughter earns better than you. We will look for someone who will match her level.

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Hai na. Ab kaha gyi ye feminism aur equality???

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Equality aur feminism ki hi to baat hai bhaii ye.

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Harsh reality bro .

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Yeah bro

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Ileen @ileen

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Ok I will ask u one question, if ur daughter love someone exactly like u then u going to agree for there relationship

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Yes offcourse. I earn sufficient to look after a family.

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Veere woh isiliye hai kyunki jaab bandiya zyaada kamaati hai, toh hum laundo ko dikkat hoti hai ek waqt ke baad. Research ne yeh sabit kiya hai. Aur ma baap ko yeh baat pata hoti hai mere bhai. Isiliye woh apni beti ko waha nehi dena chaahte jaha uski zindagi sirf ek bande ko secure feel karvaane main guzar jaayegi. Hum ladke phir bhi khush naseeb hai ki humaari value paiso se dekhi jaati hai and looks se nehi. Paise toh phir bhi kama sakhta hai insaan, lekin ladkiyo ko toh khubsoorti se tola jaata hai. Agar ek ladki khubsuraat nehi, toh din bhaar taane sunne paarte hai. Jissdin launde secure honge aur unko apni bandi ki kamayi se insecurity nehi hogi, ussdin ma baap khushi khushi apni beti ko waha de denge. Hope.that helped.

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Bhai kaisi dikkat hogi partner ke jada kamane se ?? Aur ye dikkat phir ladkiyon.ko kyun nhi hoti ?

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Bhai bohot dikkat hoti hai bohot saare ladko ko jaab ladkiya zyaada kamaati hai. Tu research data check kar ekbaar online. Lekin Haan tu saahi bola ki ladkiyo yeh dikkat kabhi nehi hoti. Aab iska kya karaan hai pata nehi mujhe veere. Isiliye ma baap beti waha nehi dete jaha ladka kum kamata hai ladki se. Woh risk nehi lena chahte apni beti ko leke. Pata nehi kyun dikkat hoti hai, but haan hoti toh hai. I think isspe ek ladki zyaada achhe se bol paayegi, kyunki unko pata hoga ki kya dikkat hoti hai laundo ko

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Thanks bro for giving your perspective

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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://m.timesofindia.com/life-style/relationships/love-sex/husbands-grow-insecure-if-their-wives-earn-more-than-them-says-study/amp_etphotostory/72143522.cms&ved=2ahUKEwiqquCd3pb4AhVI4nMBHSXcDHcQFnoECAkQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0DcR8mD_XMFhoSjnaenvx2
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.hindustantimes.com/sex-and-relationships/international-men-s-day-2019-your-mental-health-could-be-at-stake-if-your-wife-earns-more-than-you/story-BiNBawAxXur22Z1cfGpWjL_amp.html&ved=2ahUKEwiqquCd3pb4AhVI4nMBHSXcDHcQFnoECCwQAQ&usg=AOvVaw1RRfd32ztDyUQOA3kirqMM
Yeh links parhle ekbaar. Yehi woh research hai. Google karega toh aur milega

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