I have a male friend who talks non stop. Like he never stops talking and he talks loudly. I’m a silent lover, I sometimes don’t feel like talking at all, he’ll start pestering me by asking ‘why are you not talking blah blah blah’ ugh I’ve told him a million times that sometimes I don’t feel like socialising. We’re in a large group and I’m the only person he does this to. He always irritates me with his blah blah and others have actually said that they feel bad for me. He’s nice though, he offers help whenever anyone needs help. I like all that but his ‘talks’ makes me super irritated and I don’t feel like replying to him. I feel bad because he’s a nice guy. By now I’ve asked him a 100 times to shut up. Nothing’s working.
Its. Difficult situation.
Do people come up and tell you " tum bhi kuch bolo, baat krlo" when you’re with your group. How does that make you feel? What do you reply?
Nobody except him asks that
So you talk to other people? Or sometimes you’re silent with them too?
I’m an introvert. I talk moderately with people… and my friends know that. They have accepted me as I am. But this guy seems to have problem with it.
That’s so nice of your friends.
So if he’s a nice guy, he will understand. Tell him once again and explain to him that you dont talk much and you don’t even like others talking so much with you, explain to him in a kind way. He will understand. If he doesn’t then ignore him maybe.
