I have a high issue of fantasizing about friends, it’s really eats me up after I am done. I hate it. It took me years to stop staring at girls in public and checking them out. But it’s gets really hard to not check out my friends after I fantasize about them, as soon as I realise that I am staring at my friend’s breasts it disgusts me. I really need to stop fantasizing about them and I need some help for the same. I am really scared I might just make a wrong move on someone and I do die before I do that. I am shit scared about this. Please help.
I really wrote you a long paragraph, on how to avoid that stuff and it didn’t even got posted.
Is it possible for you to write that again? Please.
I did, check it out, hope it helps?
Anyways, so I’m happy to hear that you’re guilty and you’re willing to stop this. The best you can do is keep that mind of yours occupied in reading, singing along to music and keep your gaze down close your eyes and take a deep breath and tell yourself, “I CAN DO THIS” you can build a barrier yourself by keeping your mind busy. I hope it helps. If you need some real peppy songs to groove to? I gottcho back!
Thanks yo!! But I have tried all that, but it’s something like…ahh I need to explain a little not so comfortable extra detail.
Masturbation is a healthy and n natural thing to do. But not excessive. So I do it, but at the heat of the movement I started fantasizing about my friends and it’s nearly impossible to not do that at that point. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.
I understand that, you can talk to someone? Like it’ll help. Or a partner would work for you? Trust me, I knew a person like that and I talked to him. He kept his mind occupied all the time, shared his thoughts be it, bad or good ones. He slowly started drifting from the stuff and I’m glad he doesn’t even bothers to look at someone passing by.
Yes I will try doing this!! Thanks allot!!
Just a text away, good luck!
