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Anonymous

I have a guy friend, whom I love very much, he doesn’t know it.
He recently got marrried.
I always used to say to him that I won’t talk to you after you get married.
So the day he told me he is getting married, i stopped initiating talking with him and also stopped sending reels.
I didn’t even congratulate him for his wedding.
But he didn’t try to talk to me either,he just sends me a reel or 2 in few days.
I miss talking to him, sometimes I think of texting him and just start being friends like before,but I don’t, because I still love him and if I keep talking to him, I will never move on.

I think one sided love is the worst thing in the world, isn’t it?

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Anonymous

That’s good you’ve stopped talking because you’re afraid of sticking to him & later you won’t be able to move on yeah I think it’s good & he stopped talking as well because he finally got someone to rely on

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Anonymous

But why didn’t he try to convince me to stay friends
Did our friendship mean nothing to him?? He used to stay we are best friends, is this how best freinds behave??
And he still likes friendship posts on ig, the ones which are depict our friendship, still he doesn’t try to talk to me.
I will never do friendship with a guy again.

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Anonymous

Did you ever meet him?

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Anonymous

Yeah I know it’s better this way for me
But it hurts that he did no efforts to continue being friends
How can people be like this.
I was just some time pass for him, and he was and still my whole world.

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Anonymous

Not since the day he told me he is getting married
And he didn’t even ask me to meet his wife
He should have atleast done that, right?

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Anonymous

Yeah he should, if there’s an age difference like between you & him?

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Anonymous

Why are you asking this?

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Anonymous

And as far as I know, his wife is 1 year older than him.

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Anonymous

I’ll explain you but just lemme know this

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Anonymous

We both are same age
His wife might be 1 year older than us

Explain now

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Anonymous

Okayyy & you?

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Anonymous

If you both are same age & considering he’s married you’re 25-26 you’re matured enough of for your age what changes changes

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Anonymous

Me and him are 31
His wife 32

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Anonymous

See when someone finds something new na they’ll forget the old one, general thing even you know this plus he’s married

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Anonymous

People are getting married at 25-26?? 😢😢

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Anonymous

Whatever you’re lot matured you should understand things you know how things process

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Anonymous

I guess so
I wonder why married people are always so busy

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Anonymous

Yes it’s a perfect age here like considering perfect age

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Anonymous

Yeah, i think the same
But i have nothing to do now since i m on my way to office and it will take atleast 1 hr more
So i m just going with his flow 😅😅

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Anonymous

ROFL

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Anonymous

There you goo he’s your love but he has found his love & maybe he’s happy maybe he isn’t we can only predict we don’t know his situation

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Anonymous

He is happy, we have common friends, they told me

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Anonymous

Isn’t half of indian population working in IT? 😭😭

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Anonymous

Do I look mad to you? Was trying to get you understand things & you’re like agreeing to whatever he said didn’t expected from you atleast

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Anonymous

Dude, i m 31 and venting here for one sided love and friendship
So don’t you think I am mad?

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Anonymous

🤭🤭🤭
Bro’s angry now 😢

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Anonymous

Yeah, +1

Sorry other user if you felt bad

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Anonymous

Have a good day 🙂

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Anonymous

25-26 is old . Marriage after 30 is hard

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Anonymous

I was going to ask the same question

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Anonymous

🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t think people read the whole post if it’s long

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Anonymous

Ho sakta hai

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Anonymous

I don’t expect people to be on a lookout for flings on this app

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Anonymous

That I am aware of 🤦

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Anonymous

It’s not the same
She was your gf, mine is one sided
I can understand how you are feeling, it hurts to see someone you love with someone else

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Anonymous

Yaar breakup hojata toh bhi agar pyaar hai toh bura toh utna hi lagta

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Anonymous

Haan, wo toh hai

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Anonymous

Haan

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Anonymous

Your talk can create misunderstanding so you better stay away or else one day his wife will call you

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Anonymous

What?
Why would his wife call me??
He can’t have female friends??

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Anonymous

Because shadi k baad chijen badal jaati, har ladki ko smjh aata ki kon dost hai kon ex

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Anonymous

Kya aapne pura post padha hai??
Kahan likha hai ki hum ex hain??

Dhruv Patel @_dhrruuvvx

First mistake was that you didn’t expressed your love towards him to him - didn’t proposed… because of fear of rejection right ?

And now time has gone and you have nothing other than moving on and forgetting it.

But believe me there’s nothing to regret because you know EVERYTHING REALLY HAPPENS FOR A REASON and now accept the reality and just wish him congratulations and pray for his good marriage life ahead.

If you will keep talking to him a little also then you gonna hurt yourself
Better try not interact with him no matter how situation get with you.

He’s happy with his wife that could be the reason now he wanna be loyal and don’t talk with any other girl.

I wanna let you know that you deserve much better than him and you strong enough to pass this situation and phase.

Sb time prr chod do
Time heals everything.

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Anonymous

Oh please
Him and loyalty are poles apart
That’s why I never told him my feelings.

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Anonymous

Guys I know one-sided love hurts a lot but now the time is to give more love to you and you should know how beautiful you are with or without anyone.

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💯🫂

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Anonymous

Why u love them

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Anonymous

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Anonymous

Lets connect? Miss

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Anonymous

Why?

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Anonymous

Dont have exact reason to say but surely it gives good time for both of us

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Anonymous

Naah, let it be
I will unknowingly ghost you
I don’t like texting so I eventually end up ghosting people

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Anonymous

Sometimes ghosts also have wings to fly and maybe we will succeed in it

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Anonymous

Maybe we will not text all the time lets take this forward

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Anonymous

😂😂😂😂

Saniya Idrisi @saniyaidris...

Loving someone will hurt you, getting loved by someone will heal you, find someone who loves you that’s all.

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Anonymous

🫂🤗

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

Now, u girls will understand. How much a boy suffered during one side love .

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Anonymous

Hein? 🙄…

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Anonymous

Haan haan, main toh duniya ki pehli ladki hun kisko one sided love hua hai

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

Hope, the guy might love you too.
Keep trying

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

Yeah, bro
As a one sided lover.
We never receive the love and care that we have expected from our loved ones.

Sometimes, calls get not answered…
Our msgs never get a blue tick.
A phone call says that , u have been blocked by them.

I think, that’s more painful than a breakup.

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

Worst joke 🤣
If she really wants hims as a partner, y would she accept you dude🤣

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

Now , u add her and ask for date…!?

Let’s see how many days can he stay in relationship with a confused woman.🤣

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

😂

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Kyojuro_Rengoku @modern_sprout

Did ask u for any help…!?
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Anonymous

First of all falling in love be it one sided or not has no gender. And secondly if it’s one sided and the person doesn’t feel the same atleast she didn’t entertain or play with you just to get your attention until she is bored… You should be thankful and not make her look like some cul_prit to not being able to reciprocate the same emotion as yours.

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