i have a group chat on discord and we all are pretty close there, im considered a ‘‘funny’’ friend that always guffs around n stuff, so my friends started sort of bullying me? at first it was meant as a joke but i didnt like that and told them about how i felt, tho they got pretty irritated and explained that it was not intentional and kept on doing the same until today.Now everytime a new person arrives into the groupchat, they also start making fun of me based off of my friends’ attitudes towards me and this makes me even more sad. it has been going on for almost a year now and sometimes they just go over the boarders and make me really hurt. I dont tell them anything because i fear they might do the same thing as they did before or make fun of me for taking everything too close to my heart. I cant stop being friends with them either because 1. my crush is one of them 2. there is one friend of mine whom i have been friends with for 6 years or longer. I have no idea what to do to regain their respect towards me😭😭
bro just cut off ffs this gonna affect your mental health. Find someone who actually understands and respects about what you feel . Whatever you mentioned above are just signs of toxic friendship .
i was also in that kind of friend 's group for 7 years in school and that sort of thing especially for a 3 grade student is quiet tough also its depressing, feeling neglected and ashamed that im not good enough so i sort of always keep silent with the fear that i will be outspoken and ashamed of myself.
then once i started to try to try saying dialogue they used for me in my mind and try telling them myself memorising their dialogues and fight out my fear
eventually when i was 8 grade or so i started giving back to them soon we had fights but i never minded as it was all wordly and next minute it was all fine i just used to speak whats there in my mind avoiding overthinking of that particular issue as earlier i used to be silent then feel depressed after at the end of 10 class we need to leave earlier school and i decided to start a new chapter of life i took admission in the school where that group of friends was not going in order to come out of it and after that 11 and 12 grade were the most… best …year of my schooling. I was seen as the person who answer you back at any say and others used to fear me yeah thats not to great thing learnt but it was not to degrade anyone and a moral line is always there keeping others feeling in mind like a positive debate and then i also topped in my city in non medical😁😁😆
if you are not mentally fine nothing would be great so please come of that and start focusing in our own life your well being not forget always keep trying and work on improving
Dreamer @aheadofthecurve
Talk to them . If they’re matured enough they will understand.
tbh they seem like assholes I was in a friend group like that they called me funny but I was just someone they could bully but if you don’t want to that on you but drop them
