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Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I have a great boyfriend and he loves me so much and treats me well. Still I’m not good to him and it makes me sad. I want to change but I still keep on repeating the same bad behaviour . I don’t know what to do

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Nidhi Saroha @nidhi_267

It can happen you know . You might not change at all but atleast you are trying to change . If your conscience is strong enough to change for him , you would surely change for good .

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I’m trying so hard. And everytime I think never again but still I repeat it. And the vicious cycle continues. I don’t want to lose him

Farhan @farhan69

Try it

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Nidhi Saroha @nidhi_267

You won’t lose him if you keep trying . He might also see your effort to change for him . And actaully this may make him love you more . Just don’t give up on yourself and him yet .

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I don’t want to give up on him. I will not. I am just afraid of him giving up on me. He said let us take some time and work on ourselves because it’s not happening now.

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Nidhi Saroha @nidhi_267

I am not much experienced you know . The break might help him and help you sort some things . You need to control yourself . You need to realise what’s right at right time , not later .

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

That is the exact problem. I realise it later not at the moment. And when I realise it the damage has already been done.

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Nidhi Saroha @nidhi_267

It’s alright . Belive in your love , not in your confidence cause it might ruin it . You can do it . Fighting

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

Thank you🥺

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Nidhi Saroha @nidhi_267

Its alright . You are welocme . It’s my honour to help . 😊

Farhan @farhan69

U r right nidhi

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Anonymous

Why do you say so? Like what way you think that you are not good to him?

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I keep on picking fights with him without any reasons. I say him things. I blame him. He’ll do everything good still I’ll find a fault. Idk

Farhan @farhan69

I think u r loving him so deeply

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Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I guess yes 🥺

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Anonymous

Ooh…may be you are too confident that your bf will never leave you and that might be the reason you are just picking fights with him for no reasons. Maybe you need a break from your relationship and that could be the reason. I dont know…still work out yaar…aise sche pyaar krne wale log milte kamm hei aaj kl…soo cherish it and enjoy every small moment of your relationship rather than blaming one another. As you said you are trying to bring a change…hope it will turn out to be in ur way. Tc

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I guess at some level I’m too confident. Vhi to . I think I’m so lucky that I found him and I myself will ruin it 🥺

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Anonymous

Dont worry yaar… everything will be fine. And you have got this girl…just chill…have a tight sleep

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I hope everything gets good❣️

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Hie nidhi

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Anonymous

No matter how much you love someone If they behave bad - day by day feelings start to fade away. If you really care and love him you should fix your behaviour.

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

This is what I’m afraid of that he’ll fall out of love with me 🥺

Vipul C @lupiv

What does your gut say? Fights are part and parcel of a relationship unless they are excessive. You say you pick fights for no reasons, are you insecure regarding him by any chance. See there is a reason, it’s just that you can’t see it.

Don’t be hard on yourself. Although I must appreciate your BF (If I can address him that way) making you feeling guilty with you thinking that it’s you who is thinking and it you who is probably in wrong.

Pearl Pearson @scarlet03

I honestly sometimes think that I always end up apologising 😶 And I feel it’s always my fault. Idk if he makes me feel this way or It’s just how I am.

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