I have a friend who is being addicted to smoking and drugs for a while. I have tried to help her but I am helpless at times. 

You can’t control it. Addiction is a self diagnosed disease. Some people are pre disposed genetically to have addictive personalities 

I am sorry you feel that way. I hope your friend gets better! 

Unless your friend herself decides to quit, nothing you do will actually get her to do it. Speak your concern out and hope she realises what’s right for her. Good luck?

Mental Health

Hi, i know that i should be able to figure this out on my own and all of that but i can't. I just feel so horrible, my best friend treats me horrible and she always picks fights with me then plays victim and i always end up apologizing for everything and most of the time its for things i don't even know that i did. I am also home schooled so i don't really have any other friends other than 4 girls but they always end up defending her. I hate this so much it makes me so upset i pretty much cry myself to sleep every night. I can't take it anymore, i cant break off from her because our parents are best friends and we are cousins. (the same age.) I just feel so alone and abandoned. Me and her, we were doing so good for so long, but then out of no where she stopped talking to me and she said when i asked her if you don't know what you did then i don't need to tell you think about it. Then we didn't talk then she called me and apologized saying i was on my period and i didn't know what to do so i just said that i didn't mean it. She used me as a scape goat and I'm tired of it. I'm tired of being a rug but i don't wanna be more alone. I'm sorry i know its weird but i thought i would give this website a shot. Thank you so much have a blessed day.

Friends

so me and my friend have been friends forever and she recently has been overprotective when she sees me with other people and even saying she is going to hurt herself if I don't stop hanging out with them so I asked her what was wrong and she told me she had feelings for me so I told her ill need a day or two so she said ok. I truly liked her back but because of the behavior she had I can imagine what behavior she would have in a relationship but after a day I told her I liked her back but by that time she said she had a, girlfriend, i was shocked she introduced me and all so after I told her we should cut ties because she had a girlfriend. but she had so-called feelings for me she agreed to cut ties but after a few days she kept on texting me and showing up at my house I told her I was uncomfortable and could she please stop she did stop showing up at my house but she kept texting me from different accounts and numbers. I'm i the bad person?

Jealous

My best friend is a kinda difficult to deal wid. Like some part of me already knew but I was way too young to understand the extent. But now that I see it it's like I can't unsee it if? Our relationship is weird. ​It's like I'm always there for her... To help her when she need me but she's almost never there for me. And we just don't sync well. We have such different personalities and outlooks towards almost everything and now we can rarely be alone together. Like before we cld bit now it superr awkward. But also all my other friends are associated wid her. And I can't expect them to just leave either her or me. And I'm not saying I'm the nicest person in the world or anything. I too can be toxic sometimes, I accept. But sometimes her constant judgement and excluded me gets a little much. Idkk wat to do

So i very calm guy, i doesn't get anger easily so last month due to some reasons my bestfriend and one of my friend (she was quite close to me) had an argument and i was not taking anyone's side at that moment so after this i was just a little bit rude to her coz(it's a long story) we have to go for a clg trip my bsf was not coming I talked with her parents and made her to come and a day ago trip this happened so the whole pressure was on me kyuki i made her to come, now that friend came to me ki why are you rude to me bcoz of her i told her literally 5 times don't talk now I am not in a chill phase things will went wrong but she is keep coming and i said many things to her and we are not talking from last month but I feel void without her should I go and sort everything?? With her 
One of my common friend asked her what if Me comes for a closure she said I don't want to talk with him but in the start she was crying coz she thought she lossed me but now idk what to do 🙂

So I have had a bestfriend who is very toxic and narcissistic...So initially we were just bestfriends but after sometime she caught feelings for me....Basically what happened was she tried with all her crushes and came to me when all of her crushes rejected her. I was always there for her as a bestfriend..I was kinda being used.. Always forced me to tell her if I like her or not..It was purely platonic for me but she misunderstood me.Even my other guy friends asked me to get into a relationship with her because she was pretty..She kinda forced herself on to me to make me like her..So one day we went out for lunch and had funnn but she really wanted to drink that day..I don't usually drink but have tried a few times because of peer pressure as a teen..So that day we didn't drink at a pub but we got alcohol from a shop and took it to a random empty building terrace where she gulped down an entire bottle of vodka..I tried to stop her but couldn't as she drank it very quickly while was on call for a few minutes .after a while she started talking to me and told she liked me because I'd never  treat her like her exes or crushes..In a few minutes she said that likes me..When I didn't react or respond much she started verbally abusing my ex.then she called herself to be prettier than my ex and verbally abused my ex..Then she was leaning on my shoulder and then she said that she knew I liked her and forcefully tried to kiss me which I  rejected. Then she change it to something worse by calling me names and slapped me once I knew she was drunk so ignored it too.Now she said I know what you guys like and she tried unbuttoning my clothes and climbed up on me.She tried to touch me in a very in appropriate way tbh I felt so disgusted when she laid her hands on my crotch.She asked me to touch her and my reaction was I froze .I never anticipated that my bestfriend and I would be in such a situation. She threatened to make noise or shout if I tried to tell her to stop. But luckily she started puking immediately while she was trying to kiss me .The worst memory I have to carry is that she tried to kiss me after puking. This was a terrible experience a lot of people said there is nothing that can be done about it so I should consider it as fun but I felt extremely violated and disgusted. Thank god she started puking the alcohol out. We stayed on the random terrace while she refused to go home and I finally convinced her and had to drop her home.I spoke to her mom and told her she was at a ladies pg and got drunk there with her classmate and they couldn't drop her due to their curfew. After this the next day she picked up a fight and we stopped talking for a while.I could understand that she was feeling rejected and was not in a good condition but that doesn't justify her actions. I don't understand how movies have changed the perception that seducing someone can make them fall in love..We did talk after the incident and tried to be friends like before but she wasn't worth..letting her in and letting her to mess with my mind put me to a worse of situation. I liked her but not the way she wanted me to..There's another very toxic thing that keeps happening which is she uses me to talk about her problems and then treat ne like trash and I have been manipulated and I was forgiving for a while but stopped recently .I just can't tell anyone how I felt without people fantasizing about it .I feel disgusted and she is a big trigger for me the thought of her or a she trying to contact me ruins my mind and I just hate myself because I liked her .

Something has upset my friend and made her feel very sad. She said that she rather not talk about it. I told her that is completly up to her and if she wants to she can come to me and tell me what is going on. 
She did not tell me but told another friend. They told me that she will tell me what is going on later but that there are reasons why she only told them only.

Although I know it's stupid I can't help but feel jealous that she did not tell me but them. What I actually should be concerned about is that there is something that made her sad.

Insecurity

There's this girl who is a friend of mine, she's always mad at us for NO REASON at all. That is annoying asf. But when we don't talk with her because of her shitty behaviour, she cried and told her mom about it and we got detention for not talking with that b. Today while we were play games, she joined and yes, mad for no reason. That annoying b really need to stop asking people for help with assignments.

School

anna-floor is my bestfriend is see her as my bestfriends sinds is was 7 when i whent to high school we can in the same class together we made friends but the only reason i am in the friend group is because anna-floor is friends with them i dont feel like they like and i am pretty sure that i see ana-floor as my bestfriend but i dont know if she see me like her bestfriend i would die for her but i dont think she would for me but she is such a great friend i just keep messing up we keep getting in fights becaus of me i feel like i dont make her happy anymore i  feel broken i am now learing for my test tommorow :l i have french i hate friend i am in a team with anna-floor right now i am listening to sad music i hate myself and my body my hole friend group is excetid for hot girl summer but i just wanted to lock myself in a room everybodys says that i am skinny but i dont end i will never feel skinny there is allwasy my brother that calls me fat end then i just cry about it and i love math en now its going so bad i feel sad about it my mom yells at me every day and my dad en i am pretty sure i dont feel happy or sad i just go truh the days 

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