I have a friend who calls me up every time she is having issues with her I don't-like-him-but-he-is-a-good-friend-and-affects-me-alot and I get it she just wants to vent and let it all out . But every time she calls , she keeps on talking for hours , literally HOURS. And I'm there going "hmm" "okay" "yeah" , dude take the hint , I'm not interested ! Stop wasting my time if you don't even "like him" 

Best friend duties ????. Can't help it. If you are bored cut the call and put your phone on aeroplane mode. 

Relationships

I am now in a very bad situation for quite a few days. We were a group of 4 and we were good buddies. One of the four was a girl who is jolly and interactive. But that girl left us bcz she found a vibe match to another guy who just came in her life two to three days back. We were having a great bond for months but bcz of that girl, the long time friendship got broken 
And, the guy to whom the girl had her vibe matched, he actually disrespects and make fun of her. We tried to make her understand but she made her own value dropped in front of everyone. 

I need a suggestions from you all : Why do we need a vibe matched while making friendship? 

It hurted me a lot bcz I m more emotional and sensitive in these cases. I don't have friends usually to whom I could share these. So, threw my hearts out. I cry alone, I always be sad and even it makes me think of bad ventures but I need someone to whom I can make myself comfortable and share all of my thoughts which is inside me. 😔😔😔

Friends

How can i help my bestfriend who is having borderline personality disorder?

Personality Disorder

I heard on a recording that my best friend for four years is talking behind my back... she said I'm a fool so many times... Should I stop being her friend? or I'm just imagining things?

Exhausted

The last two years have been awful. I never knew growth was this hard.  I'll start from the beginning. Ive been an introvert all my life, in high school I was approached by a strange girl who I later began to develop feelings for.  Her name was Ashley and she was all I thought about.  Long story short,  I learned that Ashley had a bit of a complex and enjoyed leading me on because she enjoyed having followers.  This sort of fucked me up having this happen in my more formative years.  I spent the rest of high school getting over her.  She changed after that, she got a boyfriend and moved away to new york and we stayed in touch as friends.  Occasionally playing league of legends.  I never dreamed of falling for her again.  Eventually, she broke up with her boyfriend and came home to reconnect with her family.  We had many friends in common and naturally we all started hanging out again once she moved back into our friends house. One thing lead to another and I ended up planting this seed in my head that maybe things could work out between us now that she was back and she wasnt so manipulative.  She insisted on a platonic relationship but I wasnt ready to listen.  I started paying her large sums of money to dominate me.  It helped us both because she needed the money and it was very therapeutic to me.  My therapist says she made me this way in the first place or at least contributed.  Anyway it ended up pushing them away.  I began to get more unstable as she started seeing other guys.  I pushed all my friends away. It broke me down to my very core.  Fast forward and I am talking with one of them again but ashley doesnt seem to want anything to do with me.  I still see her with other guys and it breaks my heart.  I dont know what to do.  I dont know if ill ever get over her.  Ive been in therapy for 2 years and its not help.  I want to end it all.  She's the most beautiful thing to ever walk the planet.  I miss my friends too.  I feel more alone than ever. When she left I started messaging random girls on instagram trying to fill the deep hole in my heart and I lost more friends in the process.

Breakup

Just wanted to tell you guys about an incident. There is this friend of mine not a very fast friend just someone I know. I am an introvert with an arrogant face (many have told me this) but trust me I am not arrogant. So this girl lets call her Trisha she has been my class mate since college 1st year now we in 3rd. We just days before lockdown randomly went drinking with a mutual friend and we were wasted , after that mutual friend left we booked a room and made out and slept. We kind of   dated for a month after that but it was unsaid relationship where we used to talk till 5 in the morning sent heart emojis all the time. Then we lost our touch and talked only when we needed help regarding the assignments and tests (in lockdown). Lockdown finally ended (last college semester), she started dating this guy and posted couple goals photos on instagram,  it was fine I did not care much. So fast forward to 25March 2021 we had our last mid term exam. So we were smoking just outside college and Trisha and some other friends were there. She had this hickey on her neck which was visible and many female friends told her so in private. So then and there we planned to go out for a drink I, Trisha, and one more friend lets call her Kritika. So we three went to a place from where mountains were visible and it was so cool.  We got drunk and Kritika went to get some more cig the shop was close by. So Trisha came forward to kiss me, I was shocked but gave her peck on the cheek she smiled and kissed my cheek too. Then she came forward and said "I want to really  kiss you" and I said no because it was not right after that she literally pleaded and said its fine trust me I wont regret but still I did not wanted to kiss her so I denied (we had just a couple of drinks). Kritika came back and we smoked and drank a bit more and left. Fast forward to now,  She acts as if nothing happened and I do the same, but it is funny when she posts relationship goals pics on Instagram. this reminds me that everyone "ACTS" so perfect in instagram.

Life

 Maybe I’m just overthinking this but, I’m going back to school in 2 months and my close friend is a senior and she’s graduation next year. I consider us close friends she’s like a sister to me but I feel like I’m a burden to her. She’s helped me with tough times and I got her a Valentine’s Day first which she enjoyed. But, at homecoming I asked her to dance with me and she just ran away from and didn’t say anything which was heart wrenching and ever since that I don’t know if our friendship is real or not before homecoming I told her she was like a sister to me. If our friendship is true how do I not push her away?

Me and my friend had an argument and after listening so many of things from her our mutual friend said you guys should figured out you should message her and I always message her when she had a argument with me and I said to the mutual friend that I don’t have courage tell her if she want she can text me so I got message from her and she started asking me questions and than she said you are in trap I know you were lying or something and I was like what are you talking about I said truth to you and when she said you are in trap my heart shattered I was like what you want to prove that you were right all the time and it’s true btw I was  so stressed and now she is behaving  like she is right and I am wrong and our mutual friend is blaming me and no one of them understand my feelings! 

Peer Pressure

I try to vent to my best friend and she instantly turns all of her attention to her boy friend...like im struggling and she doesn't seem tp care

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