I have a boyfriend but now I’m feeling for my best friend I want him 😭😔
But my boyfriend truly loves me idk what to do now 😔😭
Kharthika @kharthika
Hey! Having feelings on bestfriend might be because he’s really close to you and he understands you very well. They might not be like real feelings. But it’s you who is feeling so. I’m just giving you a scenario. If you and your bestfriend are in relation and later you feel that things aren’t working out you’re not in love with each other. It might affect your friendship. And even you left your boyfriend feeling that you love you bestfriend. Now you tend to lose both. So just sit have a relaxed mind and think.
I tottaly agree with what you said 😔but even the feeling can’t go away
Rn I just want him I want to share my feelings with him but I just can’t
Everyone will gonna judge me 😔
Kharthika @kharthika
Yes people are there for judging! But make sure that won’t affect you in any way! Yes the feeling can’t go away I agree.
Kharthika @kharthika
If you want to discuss about this more you can feel free to text me on Instagram if you use! I can give you my ID!
I just want to know that what decision you would have been taken if you were in my situation? 😔
Thanks for your concern but these days I ain’t using Instagram
Kharthika @kharthika
If I would have been in your place! I would first talk this out with my bestfriend. Because I’m a kind of person that can’t hide anything from him. As he is my bestfriend he knows what’s good for me. And if I’m going in a right path. So I’d take up his advice and think whether I’ll be happy with this decision or not. But to be very honest being in a relationship and having feelings for you bestfriend that situation is the hardest! I would just breakup.( I know that would hurt my boyfriend) but being with him and having feelings on bestfriend is like cheating the boyfriend. So I would breakup and then confess feelings. If my bestfriend says yes then a happy ending. If he says nope and if we both are matured enough to handle the situation. Our friendship will be the same. But the kind of love I’ve for my bestfriend wouldnt fade away! If you’re a person if you talk to him despite him saying no and your feelings are increasing then I would suggest to decrease talking to your bestfriend ( I know that’s hard)
Thankyou so much I just wanted to share my feeling with someone! 😔❤
A living being can develop feeling for multiple , thats biologically accepted but you only know if your feelings for your best frnd are biologically sentimented or if they are platonic … Platonic love is real love buddy and once you figure out that things will be clearer
I’ll let the things go with the flow that’s what I can only do 😔
do what comforts you:)
Chose the one for whom you started to feel later coz if you would be loving the first wouldn’t have fallen for second
Everyone will judge me 😭
What does matters to you being a person whom you love or being judged…
