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⚕️Depression

🧑Anxiety

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💗Relationships

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Anonymous

I have a bf who says that he loves me so much but he doesn’t want to commit to anything and on other hand my family is pressuring me to get married don’t know what to do,

It is so hard to keep it up

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Anonymous

We had a talk, the relationship was started with a word casual however it was never he was the one who started saying those words everytime,
He knows the situation but he doesn’t want to take a stand for our relationship, although he says he loves me but I don’t know what kinda of love is this,

Chris @boredaf123

TP here. Ditch that boy girl, he aint serious about you

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Anonymous

I tried whenever I try to break up he doesn’t let me

Chris @boredaf123

What do you mean he doesnt let you? You just text him explaining everything and block him afterwards. Either he gets serious about you or you leave him behind.

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Anonymous

Yeah I think I need to do that, but then he shows up at doors to talk and explain the things,

Making it more complicated

Chris @boredaf123

Tell him you done with him. He cant commit to you and you need commitment , theres mismatch of expectations and its non-negotiable on your end. He better step up for it or move on . He cant keep doing it all the time. If you know his friends or siblings, tell them about it as well. If he reaches your house, you reach his too for help

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Anonymous

No it’s not like that he will hurt me ever,

But he is bit controlling…
But yeah I know this is the best thing to do
Thank you

Chris @boredaf123

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Anonymous

Thank you
But why all guys do this

Chris @boredaf123

He afraid of commitment or unsure about future with you. Afterall big decision to make as life partners.

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Anonymous

I should be the one thinking all these stuff but I think love is enough

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Anonymous

Because we have family, and marriage is commitment which most of the guys are afraid of

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