i have a bf his names sawyer but tbh it feels like im losing feelings bc me and him dont really talk like that also bc im getting kicked out and tbh i dont think he cares and the guy thats gunna give me a place to stay it feels like i trust him more than sawyer and i wanna tell my bf how i feel but idk

Can we connect? I'm a girl lol and I've had these similar things happen to me when I was 14-17

One Sided Love

i am 29 y.o about to be divorced. I recently developed a connection with my insta friend i have been friends with from the last 8-9 yrs. And it felt a deep connection, Luckily he expressed the same feelings. After few conversations i started liking him, which i expressed him. He is worried abt my future but with him i feel secured, now we talk everyday and it feels like we shd keep on talking and i dont wanna hang up. I feel like i am falling for him, although, he said his parents are looking for a girl to get him married with. I am confused what to do next. But i want this connection with him. Plz help. 

Love

I’m so mad at him because he’s ruining his life. He chronically self sabotages and pushes everything good away, including me. He remains in a job that makes him miserable (having panic attacks, barely can eat, etc.) and he stays living a lifestyle that he hates. He thinks he’s incapable of so many things, when in reality he’s capable. I wish he would get help. Our relationship didn’t have to end. 

Im so worried things are going to get so bad to the point where he can’t handle it anymore. Why does he choose to live in misery, when he could have the world? 

Breakup

So I have been in a relationship with a boy since the past 3 months. It was going smooth until I figured out that the guy is too clingy and immatured. I mean,it might sound sweet but he is always talking about things like marriage ,love and never tried to rationalize things. Whenever I try to make him understand that marriage is a big thing and we really need to be practical about such a big thing in life. He starts to doubt my loyalty. In short, he is always acting immatured and clingy . He always craves for attention all the time. I have a life outside this relationship and he fails to understand that I need to balance both. He is too needy and demanding to a point that I have started to feel annoyed about this whole thing . But at the same time,I don't want to hurt him. Please help.

Any tips on self healing after a healthy relationship and breakup? This hurts way more than any toxic relationships or breakups I’ve had. Knowing that it wouldn’t meant to be and that it would never work out but making it happen and finally accepting the reality of it. We’ve went our separate ways and now I’m just slowly waiting for the love to fade. He said we shouldn’t contact each other anymore so that we can heal the proper way and I know he’s right but I can’t do it. One hour I’m ok the next hour I’m balling my eyes out. This is an emotional roller coaster and I’m grieving but I don’t want to let this breakup take me down because I still have a job to do and bills to pay.

So it happens like when you think other person would never do such a particular thing and they do exactly the same thing, it breaks you part. He came into my life when I was least thinking that I needed love to complete my life. He came in my life and loved that feeling of having that one special person in the life. I am a true believer of love. We came close, shared special moments , I used to wake up thinking of seeing him, we work together, we used to walk back home together (my fav part of the day) until he decided he does not wan to talk to me. From that day till date I have been facing sleepless nights, I am an introvert person I usually don't like to be around people that much, but now I spend most of the time with people who aren't my close friends, just to avoid any time I can get with myself. I never believed in online dating, but went on dates with random people. I cry randomly, usually I go to bed crying. This is not me I was a very optimistic person, but he has changed me I am doing things which I never believed in. And I don't know how to get myself back. I loved him so much, I am stuck with the memories I had with him. I thought a closure might help me that why he did what he did, but now I think what good can closure do, he will not say or do anything what would give me some relief.  If he wanted me in his life he could not have let this happen. And the worst part is I have to see him everyday and he pretends as if there was nothing between us ever. That kills me.

I need adviceeee like literally right now cause if not ill be on the wrong decision again hahah. So, yesterday me and the guy im talking to end up everything what we have. I was the one who decided that its best for him to leave me. He didnt want for us to end the things we had but in the end he said if i want that then he’ll leave. Now that we ended what we have, i want him back. But my problem is it would be harder for me to let go again if we’ll continue what we have. I dont know what we call on the relationship we have cause he  didn’t want us to be on the gf/bf stage. But our relationship was really deep, it was hard for me to convince him to leave then I want him back right now. Cause i really miss him. 

Hi friends: 


I need to share what i am going through in my life. I lost my first husband before 2years. 

And before 1 year got married to Arjun. He is also a widower lost his first wife and blessed with a cute boy baby  with his first marriage. Now he is 6 age. 

Actually we both agreed to marriage as per family members happiness but even me and arjun not fully out of past life losses during we got married. 

But in past a yeae we both got well connected emotionally and mentally to each other but never connected physically as husband and wife. 

Before 2 days arjun asked my opinion about accepting him as full husband and wife.  ( means becoming husband and wide including physically )but he gave my own time to think.


But from that question past 2 days my mind is busy in thinking what is in his heart  because while marriage we both are in same mindset as he said he cant  have another lady in his first wife place. 

Even me in same mindset can't accept another male in my first husband. 



But Arjun is a sweet person and definitely cute and handsome but i feel guilty to accept him in my first husband place abd and feeling its betraying my first husband 


If i accept arjun fully as my husband is it betraying my first husband?


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