I hate my parents soo much… They are the only reason of my trama. At first they ruined my childhood by not letting me make any friends near by. So i dont have any good memories with others. All i have are the bad and embarrassing memories😢. And now they are trying to ruin my teenage by not letting me hangout with any of my friends. They always deny my every plan with any of my friends abt going on movies or hanging out or any thing. And then taunt me ‘look how she’s being a spoil girl’ or ‘we do every thing for u’ and all these kind to of stupid lies. What am i suppose to do? 😭😭 They just dont get that doing everything can turn into nothing if they dont let me be happy…
Trayextant @shadowlord
Fr 🥲🥲 same they never let me go out with my frnds to malls or any other place
mogambo @josav
Muzha to wedding bi attend nhi karenge derey han merey village me zha me 5saal se nhi gya they alway taut me for about future career, and unhey lagta h me bahar zakey bigad zaunga haad h
mogambo @josav
Meney decide kr lia h ab me saab kuch chup-chup ke shok purey karunga but vhi waley zo sahi h apni life ziunga but, I would advice u beware of people hum mazey karne bahar ka rasta dundtey han -or bahar ke log hum se maje le letey han islia dost achey rakhna 😉baki saab karo zo karna h life me kuki zindagi na milegi dobara
Land of Blues @landofblues
Its a story, that we need to first understand who we are dealing wuth and then slowly calm down. Make a plan to grt out of this, and separate ourselves permanently from here.
If you are a student, then calm down and try to be friends with people in your school/college group. Stick to whatsapp etc…talk with them a lot. Later, as you grow up …try to find a place further away from the family…in the name of good job or better studies…and cut away out permanently. discut from them.
It’s the way ur parents were brought up made them to cause u trauma, U need to become aware of this and then u will realise that the way their parents treated them made them treat u this way bcs they are unaware to. U need to stop hating them u need to forgive them I know it’s difficult try practicing meditation it will bcme easy. Maintain am emotional boundary with them as ur staying in the same home. U can try speaking to them as to why u need to go out with friends if at all they r in the mindset to understand. Confidently try talking to them in order to do this u need to stop hating them try meditation it really helps
Thank you soo much for ur advice! Ur right they only treat me like this cause they got treated like this. I have made a mindset to be patient with their decisions and later try to convince them what i want and stay calm.
Same my parents even told me that my friends are good for nothing and leave them otherwise I will be spoiled
They literally think that going on hangouts 2-3 times a months will make us drug addicts or something… 😭💀
