i hate my father,i know it may be a bit rude for me to say this but he is horrible,why would someone humiliate his daugter in front of his friends just bc.she did not hear him calling her,he callnig her a stupid,cow or even a bit*h,i just cant bc.this is not the first time...

Well you can ask me bc.idk from where to start

Nope actually,i don't like giving my social media to strangers i don't mind to chat here 

Now&Me Feedback

My dad just slapped me and pushed me cause I talked in a louder tone 😂 I'm a teenager 17. Feeling so rubbish and insulted not the first time he has done dat. btw are all Indian parents like that? I wanna run away from here..mere dad ko meri chaatne se fursat nahi hai he is always at her side dono ek dusre ko support krte rehte the one day my mother was cursing me she took it to the word " chinal" to her own daughter bruh?😂  ( P.S : BOTH ARE WELL EDUCATED )And my dad's reaction was ki are thorns pricking you if someone says something?? Like seriously?? My dad kicked me in the stomach for back answering my mom lol 😂. One day he even beat me all night just cause I had kept one answer of my history book incomplete bt told him dat I haf completed full. He was like " jhoot kyu boli ki complete ki??" Bro one answer?😂 They are damn strict wid me into everything forcefully put me into science took credit of everything I achieved...  I wanna run away somewhere I am just tireddd I am a child abuse victim too they know all dis bt no love 😂I have no freedom no social media no going out wid frnds thus I lost each one of my frnd. 

Depression

I'm facing this very particular issue while being at home.
I live in a small size locality with no room for privacy/dnd environment .So now that us and our parents are home most of time and usage of phones has increased. My dad tends to receive and watch content that's very different and opposite to what I believe in and it's polarising as well to hear. He dislikes using earphones or listening to stuff at less volumes and when I nudge him ,he gets angry and refuses to use them. The content makes me anxious and affects my outlook to things. 
Have you encountered anything similar ? How do you work these kind of things out with dominant/aggressive parents ? 

Parenting

I've seen stuff about my dad that nobody else has. I cannot love him the same i did. Honestly, forget love. I cannot see him the same way as i did before. Both my parents have been working since i was a very small kid and being the only child , i used to crave for love and spending time with them. But since my dad kept sailing, I never spent a lot of time with him anyways.  He has been grounded for the last 5 years and i haven't seen any particular development in our relationship either. I do keep getting jealous of my friends whose parents take them out to beaches,  trips abroad or within the country or state as well but my father hasn't even bothered. He takes my mom and i for dinner once in a while but it's only for the sole purpose of eating and not "spending time together". We constantly keep fighting over my grades. I don't get good grades because i'm studying PCM against my will. I don't understand it and i hate it. I keep getting compared to my friends who all weren't as bright as me back in class 10 but are way better than me right now (LIKE EXCUSE ME SIR, IS IT MY FAULT THAT I'M STUDYING THIS BS?) I have no voice in my family and my opinion doesn't matter. The other day my dad literally told me stuff like if you get bad grades and put my name to shame, i'll slit your mother's throat and kill myself. I won't let you have fun spending my money and this actually scared me because i know that he is capable of doing so. I Hate That Man more than anybody else i know. But people treat him like a reverend, people worship him because he was very professional at work. Nobody knows him like i do. every second i spend with him feels suffocating. I just want to leave..

Lonely

My Dad is angry

why is my dad trying to get me to socialise with the guests that stayed over lmao 
i hate guests

I feel like I've lost the bond I had with my mom once. We were the closest anyone could ever be. I was the closest to her out of her three children. My father was abusive, violent and unavailable emotionally and a Casanova. He has several relationships in the past with several women and still does, probably. He made my mother's life miserable but she put up with him to raise us. I'm a 21 yo and my my siblings are 19 and 15. He wasn't even a very good father. We aren't on talking terms as of now because of the silliest thing which makes no sense but that's not the point right now. A couple years back my mother met this man and really connected with him. She asked for my permission to have a relationship with him and I felt like she deserved it. She deserved someone to appreciate her and to fill that gap of a partner in her life. So I encouraged her to go ahead and be friends with him. That man is married and has two kids. I always warned my mom to never meddle in his family and be that woman because she knows how if felt to be on the receiving end. Anyway, one thing led to another and she became really close with that person AND somehow his family. The family doesn't know about their relationship. Anyway, shortly after she got close with him, she changed. I mean, the way she talked or behaved or the things she said or did or the way she made decisions, completely changed. She started consulting everything with him before making any decisions. Soon he got in on all our life decisions and she even made me talk to him. Initially it was fine but he started meddling too much in our personal life problems. Gradually he started making sexual jokes with me and I was uncomfortable but I didn't say anything because my mom was so smitten by him. It wasn't late before he started making sexual remarks about my body and how sexy I am or my curves or asking me about my sex life with my boyfriend. He made weird indirect comments about my boyfriend and it made me very very uncomfortable and I couldn't stand it anymore. I didn't wanna ruin things for my mother so I stopped speaking to him. Blocked him and cut him off. My mother started forcing me to talk to him after a while because he used to ask her why I wasn't talking and apparently she couldn't see anything in front of his will. I told her I'm not comfortable and begged her to stop forcing me. My mom held this as a grudge against me I think and ever since then she has been so distant. I mean, I feel like I lost her. She is so invested in him and his family and cares so less for us, whom she sacrificed so much for back in the time. She went to attend a friend's anniversary on the same day as my sister's birthday, and then forced her to accept a very expensive ipad that man giften her, which when my sister refused because it is ridiculous to accept such expensive gifts from people, my mother didn't talk to her. On her birthday. On my brother's birthday which was two weeks after this, she caused a scene because my unavailable dad decided to show up and to avoid drama we decided to have one meal out with our dad and second with our mom. She threw a tantrum and after we returned from our meal with dad, she only took my brother out and not us because we suggested the plan (which she agreed to before lmao).
The point of mentioning the whole birthday fiasco is that, about a month and a half back, it was that man's daughter's birthday for which my mother flew in one day in advance to surprise her. I mean? I just don't know what to say. The covid situation was terrible back then and she still traveled just for his daughter, leaving her own two kids back at home(I am stuck in another city) alone with their 75-yo grandmother. When the time to return came, she suddenly started caring about covid and how traveling is unsafe and has been staying with him and his family since then. I wanted to go back home, she bought me the ticket, and then two days later she called me and made 5 other people from my family to call me and ask me not to go because of covid. I would have agreed if she hadn't gotten me the ticket 2 days ago. But guess what? That man told her to stop me, because (I know it's unsafe to travel during covid and I do not encourage that at all) if I went home, everyone will start questioning why she can't? When I questioned her, she made me talk to him and my blood boiled at the sound of his voice. I hung up and my mother called me back to scream at me and we got into a fight and I told her directly that he made sexual advances at me and she pretended to care for a day but she's still there, still very happy with him and his kids and I don't think she's gonna give him up even though he tried to harass her own daughter. I don't understand. This is not the woman I called my mother. I mean, I don't recognize her anymore. I was so close to my mother and now she's just some woman who doesn't even ask if I ate or not? It is all my fault. 

Harassment

My dad publicly admitted that he hates me...

Anxiety

My dad always keeps me shouting in front of people even tho i said let them go and then we ll talk about this

Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts