I hate my ex.
More than my ex, I hate my current job. 
More than my current job, I hate my dad's attachment towards my job!!!😮‍💨😮‍💨

3am Thoughts

I'm tired of my dad telling me to kms

Family

Does anyone know why I feel uncomfortable around my dad, I never know what to say. I want to have a good relationship with him but It's always so awkward. 
so I and my dad aren't close there are some talks but its never a full conversation. When I was little I would only see him on Sundays but he would be pretty tired so we didn't really spend time with him. Now he works less and comes home around 7pm. But he goes to his room to watch his shows after eating. I just feel awkward being around him, I also don't like eating with him because he used to judge everything I ate, or if I served myself a lot of food. 
I don't want to feel like this but I can't help it and don't know why I feel like this either.

Can I blame my dad for being selfish

Mental Illness

I feel sad. It's disappointing and heartbreaking to see your own family seperating. I can't fake anymore of having a perfect family. For me, my family has always been my top priority, no matter what. Friends are important but family comes first. But now it's hard to accept the situation and handle daily fights and arguments. 
Dad doesn't earn well. He tries and work really hard. Mom used to love my dad. Dad's frustration due to his own failure changed everything. I have seen my parents fighting and arguing since my childhood. But now it's extreme. They barely talk. They don't even sleep together. Mom lost feelings for him due to my dad's aggressive nature. I have a feeling that she is having an affair. My elder sister is very sure about it, but I don't want to accept the truth.
I love my dad, because he does nothing for himself. Whatever he does, he does for us, for his family. But not being able to earn well and facing failure, he has turned really aggressive. I have tried a lot to motivate him, but I guess it was never enough. I gave up because I couldn't take his anger. His "I am always right" attitude. Sometimes I really start hating him but then again when I see him sad, I feel like hugging him tight and I want to let him know that I love him.  I am closest to my mom. My sister hates her because of her affair I guess. I try to remind my sister about all the sacrifices my mom has done for her. But my sister's childhood has been pathetic. She has suffered a lot too and now all these family issues is common to her and she doesn't bother anymore. She is used to it. Everyone in the house (including me) cannot accept their fault. They argue and make excuses. I am tired of daily quarrels. It is said that talking and making proper conversations solves the problem but here no one is ready to accept that they did something wrong. They don't want to compromise. I am also one of them! Is it my mom's fault that she is having an affair? Maybe she got fed-up because of dad's aggressive nature and she lost feelings for him. That way, I cannot blame my mom. She is a human too. But where did her humanity go when dad needed my mom's support? She kept blaming him for not earning money. My dad hardly buys any good stuff for himself. He spends only for us. however, It's my dad's fault too because he was never ready to take my mom or anyone's suggestions at work.. he kept doing things which felt right to him. My mom used to support him but again she gave up.
Is this a very strong reason for my mom to stop loving my dad and having an affair? Being a wife she should have been loyal and she should support him.
Whose fault is it? How can I bring back my family together? I don't remember when was the last time we all laughed together. We go for family dinner. But I have always been embarrassed in every dining place because my parents fight like hooligans. Every 31st eve my family creates a nuisance in restaurants. This year my sister left the dining table and she kept crying. Money has always been a major issue for most of our fights.
When can we have a proper family dinner where we four can laugh together and enjoy food? How can we four stop blaming eachother for every small thing? I am the youngest and I can't see my family seperating. 

Hi, I’m 38 years old and have a daughter of 5. She told me her father molests her, but only me. Her father applied and got custody, nobody wanted to listen. I see her every two weeks and he doesn’t let me call, she is a dead shell after four months of hell 

Child Abuse

Arghh
I got a call from my clg work some work and my dad was shouting soo loudly and was giving very very bad words and rhe other person on call heard it all… I just muted it and cut the call and texted will call you tmrw in the morning…
I’m feeling soo shameful and embrasing like yrr my image is very good in clg and my dad keeps on shouting for the whole time with bad words arghhh

Every time I think of my dad it hurts honestly

Everday  my dad gets up with a angry face which make the environment so bad in the house..even today he shouted for something we didn't do at all. Now My bed broke and I fell down, even for that he is shouting on me. So frustrating..

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