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I had this bf and I really liked him… Well, I still do a little. We broke up because he moved and it was kind of weird dating from long distance. We were really close and goofy around each other but when he moved… Things started changing. Well, I did expect things to change but not this much. He started ignoring me and whenever I say hi or try to talk to him, he would answer a little bit then he would just start ignoring me. Our conversations became dull like the type you have with a friend you are not that close to. I know he’s found a new person(he didn’t tell me but it seems like it) and I’m happy for him and all, but I thought that we could still be friends like the way we were before the whole dating stuff. He was my first bf so I wasn’t really an expert in knowing the dos and don’ts in a relationship. I know I made some mistakes I regret and now I feel like he hates me now. By mistakes I mean: I kind of told all my close friends that we were dating when I was supposed to keep it a secret. But I was soo excited that I finally got my first bf and normally I can keep a secret but this one was hard for me to keep. We don’t talk anymore and now it feels like we are total strangers and I wish he would just talk to me. I feel really hurt and I keep thinking about it every day and I hate it. It really hurts knowing that I think about him every day and he doesn’t even think about me once(Well I think he doesn’t). It really sucks and hurts… I need help

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This will help 😃
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CDMDpmkDG9p/?igshid=ykk3atc9nnn9

Anonymous

Thank you soo much… This actually helped a lot.
But I got a question… How on earth do I get the person’s name of my head? When I’m doing something, his name pops up in my head and it so annoying.

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@idkwhy

Well, when his name pops up tell yourself it’s fine and remind yourself ‘He’s not a part of your life so stop thinking about it’
Acceptance is the key 😃

Anonymous

Thank you for the advice

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@idkwhy

Heyy… Maybe that person was not really meant for you… I’ve been through all this and it took me almost a year to move on. It was my first love, and when that person left, it felt like I lost everything & won’t be able to survive… But then after 2 months of crying over her, I decided I need to move on. I deleted her contacts/pictures everything & even blocked her on social media. It was difficult in the beginning, I used to have emotional breakdown almost every week but then with time I started feeling a lot better… Today after a year, I look back and find myself so stupid to cry over her. Life goes on dude, with or without him/her. Trust yourself it will all be okay 😃

Anonymous

its all about what you think i think.😝
you didnt know something and you acted,its not a mistake,its fine.cool😊.
if he is texting you back that means he is not ignoring you,it just happens when things go undesirably.if he is not taking to you,you can talk to him,he wont think it otherwise i think if he understands you and your love.
if you think that he has got another person then you should move on,hurting yourself is not something which you should do.
i wish you that he talk to you.😊

Anonymous

Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it. But how can I move on when his name keeps popping up in my head? I really need to because it’s affecting me badly. I thought maybe I should go out and meet new people but then Corona came and spoilt the plan and now I’m stuck at home with my head thinking about everything.😂😂

Anonymous

take your time then.

Anonymous

😂 Do things that make you happy and try to love yourself.

Anonymous

Thank you for the advice.