I had feelings for my best friend and he didn’t. A couple of years ago he had feelings for me, and I didn’t. So, he distanced himself from me which worked for him. Now we decided to maintain distance to see if it helps me or not. It has been helping, but I really miss him. I wished him new year’s, his response was so curt and cold. He didn’t want to speak with me. I felt hurt. And it almost felt like he wants the friendship to end altogether.
It’s a blabber, all over the place but it hurts so much.
That’s sad bro
You should let him know how you are feeling. Maybe he’s still got feelings for you and wanted to avoid you intensionally.
He doesn’t. We’ve had this talk many times. He’s also dating someone now.
You know feelings change. He doesn’t deserve you. You can find your own happiness.
I just wish this friendship isn’t over 😔 5 years. Of speaking almost everyday.
I know you want him to be happy. There is always a way to keep you friendship with him. Just keep some effort and show your support to him as friend
Third person here. Would advice against this. Dont talk to him. I know it will be so hard on you to do that. But understand that its necessary for you to move on from the friendship too . Otherwise you wont be able to get into another relationship properly and enjoy your life
Yeah. You’re right.