I had busy schedule with my studies from june 2-25 . My boyfriend had no objection at that time for my busy schedule . From june 26-30 I was busy with my cousins because I got to meet one of my favorites cousin who came from Canada and all the cousins were together after a long time . But during this time ,My boyfriend got upset with not contacting with him as normally I do . I was chatting on WhatsApp but it wasn’t enough for him as I was busy with my cousins . He didn’t tell me anything at that time that he is upset with me .Today is july 2 . Now I got time to talk and he is accusing me I haven’t given him update while I was busy having fun with cousins. He was waiting for my reply and I was busy with my cousins . Is this really my fault ? Can’t I have fun on my own? How can I solve this argument ? He is telling his side with cold voice and I am not liking it . I am feeling like he is being controlling in this relationship. I agree I was busy but is it okay to be too much clingy?
You are absolutely not wrong. Not ur fault n yes he is being clingy.
Its like, yes you guys in relation but that doesn’t mean to be thy you won’t have ur personal life or other people in it.
Please don’t apologize in this case, n try to explain him this simple logical Point.
Thanks dear . Your words helped me a lot. I was feeling suffocated for this.
I have talked yesterday night with my boyfriend about this issue and he understood that we should give space each other in our life and in our relationship. Thankfully he understood and he said sorry for this .
