I had a pretty bad breakup last year and and can't really let go of tht him. I don't get in contact with him but I can't get him out of my head. I feel so angry and overthink when ever he comes to my mind and I feel like everything around is triggering me. I don't know what to do. How should I let go of him from my mind. I tried to forgive him but it's not happening. ll ever come a time where things related to him ll stop triggering me.

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Breakup

My ex is making me regret abt me moving on

3am Thoughts

Why let him in my thoughts hurt? I have had a crush on this guy for the past 9 months....He had a pretty bad breakup and he isn't looking for any relationship....But on the other hand I fell from him so hard, he is just the way I always thought of one for me...I can't let him go of my mind...And he is pretty much close to his best friend, who is in love with him....I barely talk to him....I tried various things to move on...but he is my classmate, every time I see him I just fall for him....His charm is something that gets me on cloud nine....but things are hurting me now...I should stop my feelings for him...I have to stop my obsession for him....He did mock me 1 or 2 in front of everyone....but again I am gonna cherish him my whole life....He was the one who taught me what the butterflies in the stomach mean, to believe in love....Ya letting him go is one of the worst and best decisions I can make for myself....I don't wanna be selfish and just think about myself...I just don't know what to do.....

Crush

I miss my ex 💔 stupid reality

I met a guy for arrange marriage. We talked for a week and it was really good. He always indicated that he finds us compatible. He used to talk about our future together, although it was too soon for me to think of future togethe 
After a week, we decided to meet. And after 4 hrs of meeting, he said that he didn't find us compatible at all. I don't understand if he was so sure about all this when we were talking over phone, how can he just cancel in one meeting. I don't think two people can know each other that we'll to know if they wanna share a future together or not in just few hours. He overshadowed conversations we had day night for seven days in just four hrs.

Relationships

Hello everyone . I am at a place where my relationship is not that exciting and interesting though I communicate everything with him but he just doesn't make an effort I have made it clear about our break up but for some reason not able to avoid it completely .I don't want to be in this relationship .I want to be clear about what I want and don't want to be indecisive . I feel I'm not able to make a decision because idk how he really feels about me and he dosent give a proper answer even when I ask him . Right now I jus stopped caring about r relationship to focus on better stuff with priorities

Boyfriend

 Hi everyone...
I'm new here, not rly sure how this works, or who's gonna reply, if anyone is.. But here goes 
Well.. This is a sort of.. "relationship problem" 
So there's this guy i knew since i was 13-14, we went to the same school and had mutual friends ... Knew him for a pretty long time.. But anyways, we were always friends, but the past 2 years we got closer and closer, we even became best friends, great bond, feel like i could rell him anything, en vice versa too. Then the whole pandemic thing started, en because of that, i was able to hang out with him more, because we didn't have school (we go to different schools), we hung out more n more, started hanging out alone with just him, instead of a group. And boom, u guessed it, feelings caught. Well we admitted it to each other pretty quickly, because we already had a pretty good bond. En well, feeling were mutual, was the first for me, cuz i never actually had anyone like me back haha. Aaand this the part where it kinda goes downhill. Went to his place pretty often for a while now, we did did all the stuff a normal couple would do.. So i kinda wondered like... Shouldn't.. We.. Maybe be one too? ... Soo we talked abt it and he was a lil... hesitant(?) well.. We technically both were.. So some time passes.. Like a month or something and we have the conversation again... Buuut this time, he explains why it can't happen. He's moving (out of the country) in 6-7 yrs for his masters degree and he doesn't plan on coming back, pretty understandable, cuz the country i live in isn't doing so well financially. Allot of people will be moving and studying abroad because of this reason, most, if not all of my friends. Some sooner than others. But anywho, the thing is, i won't be going, me family doesn't have the funds to send me. Soooo i will basically.. Lose nearly everyone.. Well i could still talk to them online, but they'll surely have other friends too, there's a 5 hr time zone difference, and i won't be able to hang with em. Well... Back to the boy...he said he doesn't wanna start anything cuz he's moving away, and he wants me to still be able to date en find someone here, but we can still keep going with the romantic shenanigans, because he does like me, en he knows I do too. So we could just enjoy the years he still has here together, kinda like a friends with benefits situation in a way, or a situationship. At first i was fine with it, it could be fun, en i never actually experienced anything romantic (because im extremely shy, and have high standards i guess). But it kinda got a little... Tiring... Now.. I get anxious alot... Over dumb things sometimes... Aaaand over this too... Heee could leave me any moment if he wanted to, or found someone else, he could basically do anything he wanted to.. En i don't have any right to get mad over that... It feels like im being too possessive, en i shouldnt be feeling this way. Then again, he is gonna leave at some point, sooner or later, and there's rly nothing i can do abt it. Aaand that makes me even more anxious, because i am gonna lose him in a way, that's certain, i cant change that. I've lost... Alot of.. People and things in my life, en i don't wanna.. Really... Go through the feelings of losing someone again. It kinda scares me.. Alot actually... So i resorted to the good ol "leave them  before they leave me" mindset. I've avoided seeing him for more than 2 weeks now, bailed on him, wich also makes me kinda... Idk.. Sad.. Cuz he deserves better than this.. So i told him about it,told him this makes makes me anxious, and im getting tired. And he said...its only been a few months, and he doesn't wanna stop this... But if i wanna do it, we can go back to being just friends, alltho it would be hard for him.. To get over it, and stop doing lovey dovey around me. So the thing is, i don't rly kno what to do, i do like him, alot, and this is the first time i actually experienced this sorta thing. But at the same time, it's making me extremely anxious too, i think about it constantly, and i cant sleep because of it sometimes. So... What do you think i should do, should i end this whole thing right now?, or should i just keep going. 

My ex-boyfriend texts me sometimes. He is in another state and he called me video. He asked me when I plan to go to the gym and train my butt, ( he likes bigger ones) and I did not like this question and I said to him that I dont like this question and to stop asking me about this. Two days later he texted me and asked me again when I am going to the gym and that was the moment I posted him the middle finger smile on his message because from my point of view he is trying to make me feel bad. And after that he send me a voice message and told me to fiuck off because I send to him the middle finger smile and that I am naive , and to go and take a look at my self in the mirror because I have a flat ass and he is being honest with me and called me a very bad word and after that I told him that he is a faggoot( not me- I called him back the same word he called me first) and he said as a reply that I am a lost sluut. After that I texted him and explained that my worth is not determined by the size of my ass and that I prefer to train my brains more and he said to fiuck off, that I dont appreciate his honesty that I have a flat ass and I have to work out it in the gym minimum one year . I said that to go and date someone with a big ass and leave me alone, and when he will make a difference he will understand what is important. And his reply was : ehat difference, are you stupid? The difference between a flat ass and a big ass is a big difference ( that was hir reply. Please, may you share with me your honest opinion about this situation . Is he trying to help me , but got mad because I posted him the middle finger ? Are his words justified or his behavior is bad? Please, I would really appreciate🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏P. S ( after this conversation I deleted my skype and I dont know if I should log in to see what he was texting more or no)

I am someone who takes a lot of time trusting people and can't really open up. I became friends with this guy say A. I somehow felt comfortable and started trusting him a lot before than I usually trust people. I told him a lot of things about me like a lot. I showed him my vulnerable side which I haven't really shown anyone before him. He didn't really share anything which was fine I guess maybe he took time because. He told me about one of his friends let's say B who liked me so me and B start talking. I still used to tell A everything. I didn't really want anyone in our schools to know about me and B talking as I don't like to advertise my personal business. I told A not to tell anyone but I got to know that he has told one of his friend who told one of her friend and many others. I was fine with this and this wasn't a big deal so I just let it go. Then one day I told him about how I wasn't sure about my feelings for B and I wanted to take time and not commit and told him to not tell anyone especially B as I wanted to talk to him myself which I did. But then after 2 days I got to know through B that one of his friends say C asked him about this( I wasn't sure and he was which made it seem like that he was obsessed and I was just leading him on). Then B told me that his friend C has a friend through whom she got to know who is friends with A so the only way that vould have gone was that A told someone. It was the second time. It wasn't that big of a deal but still I felt like if he could tell this then he may have told all of my personal things to others. We haven't talked now since a month without any reason. He didn't message and I felt like I was being a annoying if I messaged coz he clearly didn't want to talk. It's just that for some time he really made me feel that I had somebody and then just went away just like that

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