Thought

Profile picture for Now&Me member @daytripper

Daytripper @daytripper

I had a long talk with my girlfriend this evening. She barely talked to me, mostly did her own work and stayed silent. And kept asking me to talk to her. What I understand that she only kept me in line so that she can cut the phone in the right time and go on to talk with her new crush. She is continuously flirting with him and denies it on my face. I love her to the moon and back. And she never loved me or cared for me. I was and am her pass time choice.

🏫
Profile picture for Now&Me member @daytripper
5 replies
🏫
Anonymous
β€’

Hey. If you think this is true and real, I am sorry to say but you will have to confront her and probably end things with her. If you keep this going, it is going to hurt you in the end.
I know that you love her to the moon and back but it’s not worth it if it’s making you feel like you’re the only one in the relationship putting in efforts. It should not be one-sided and it should not make you feel this way.
If you’re not happy, then what’s the point?

Profile picture for Now&Me member @daytripper

Daytripper @daytripper

β€’

The worse part is that she used to make me feel so complete and happy. And all this behavior from her now makes it intolerable. She keeps giving mixed signals and it gets so confusing. I hope I can take the right step.

🏫
Anonymous
β€’

I completely understand that. It does feel like it will get better and that it’s just a phase. Has this happened ever before?

Profile picture for Now&Me member @daytripper

Daytripper @daytripper

β€’

It happened before. the unbearable part is that she considers me as a burden, as a responsibility. I always thought if your partner does not have anyone, then you should not push him down. And she pushes me down. Long time no talk, no message. Her phone busy for mysterious reasons. I am trying to close my heart down for now and save myself from harming myself.

🏫
Anonymous
β€’

Yes please! You need to think about yourself and how you can safeguard yourself from getting hurt. It will be a really really tough decision but you need to do what’s right for you, even if it means leaving her. This situation sounds extremely toxic and you should really consider getting out of it.

Read more

Aalind @aalind96

Why the fu do I get friendzoned by all my crush? It's not li… Read more
12
Profile picture for Now&Me member @sguha_03

Neil @sguha_03

The loneliness came back. From making friends, to search for… Read more
@mazikeen305
From rejections we feel pain, we even doubt ourselves but ju… Read more
Profile picture for Now&Me member @sid_701_

Siddhant @sid_701_

I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all al… Read more
9
πŸ‘€
Anonymous
Koi humse bhi baat karlo
6
πŸ‘€
Anonymous
Im mad because he telling story about his crush , and he tho… Read more
5
Profile picture for Now&Me member @shaik_kaiz056

Shaik_KaiZ056 @shaik_kaiz0...

Be happy enjoy the movement
Profile picture for Now&Me member @itsmayanku
@itsmayanku
Hey all I hope u all are doing well.. Let's share your rea… Read more
3