I had a boyfriend I was in a long distance relationship with for 3 years (where we met only once in 3 yrs ) … We had the most imperfect relationship, the most incompatibility, but we loved each other . He was way too introvert and never ever socialized with anyone and had so many expectations (I had too had but what he wanted I did that at the end ).He was kind of suicidal too. We fought 5-6 days a week . He never came to pacify me . He would let me talk to any other guy and was way too over possessive. He was always the one who broke up and I broke up only once left .So many guys approached but I never reciprocated their feelings. It was always a clear no from my side . But one day a guy approached me i talked to him . There too my boyfriend was checking on me again and again … he kept doubting me. I told that guy no it can’t happen and we need to stop talking .I told my bf that I like him can we plz meet he said no after an year only we will meet … I went on a date with him bcoz I really liked him . We were compatible in every way . My boyfriend 's exams were going on so I did not tell him about anything and after a few days i told him everything and told that we need to break up … My breakup was the worst anyone could imagine … He verbally abused me a lot on chats only . He called me what not and it affected me so much that his voice echoed in my ear every night and day for a month . I begged him to let me go . Now his exams are over . He couldn’t make it and now after all these he is blaming me even more . He feels that nothing good is there in this world . And again he is messaging me you won’t understand and all because you got into a relationship. I know what I did was wrong in every way but i don’t wanna go back to him ever after seeing all this. Neither he is moving on nor letting me be happy . Again he messaged me after 3 months what do I do now ?
Aap uss relationship sai khush thai kya ?
I told you hum 5-6 din jhagda karte the … meri studies, mental health sab disturb hota tha … almost har din mere friends puchte the teri ankhein kyu swollen hai
Bas tab ap usse hatao apne jindagi sai aur wo kitna bhi kuch bhi message kre koi bhi I’d sai uske message ka reply maat Dena kyu ki ab wo sab kuch ka jimmedar apko hi therayega isliye hatao usse
Block dude. Why are you even keeping his contact
I have blocked him everywhere possible … He is creating new insta IDs and messages me
I have blocked him everywhere possible … he is creating new new fake insta IDs and messaging me
I have blocked him everywhere possible
He just keeps creating fake insta IDs and messages me
My present boyfriend would literally scold him a lot and my ex was clearly way too sensitive and if he does something to himself I am worried about that
And I have told my present bf about him . But I always stopped him from talking to him bcoz somewhere I felt ki I am at wrong and he shouldn’t be scolded but it is going over the board now
I know i did wrong … I put myself in his position andi thought about it … I would have been angry definitely but I would never keep contacting him this much he is just contacting becoz he has no one else to talk to … I thought about before getting into a new relationship so much but eventually I did choose someone else becoz I really liked that guy … at one point I had this thought ki I should not get into a relationship with anyone
I know I never wanted to be the reason for someone else’s tears … but do you think this relationship was still gonna work …after those abuses ?? I was never going to be happy … I know i did wrong by making him cry …but what do I do now ??
Not that way … but when i told him about I went out with someone else then he abused me … Means during the period we were breaking up … For a month
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