I had a bad breakup 3 months ago. From then I am focusing on personal development(gym,books meditating),I am doing my best each day to cope with breakup π
Whenever I see her pic in Mutual friends stories or posts,I start to feel low and I think about how to make her jealous in the future and want her to understand how she left me to suffer on my own.
I am unable to forgive her and make peace with myself ποΈ
Give me your suggestions my friends so that I stop thinking about her and myself from negative vibes.
Roseπ«Ά @rose_77
You can mute the stories of friends who hang out with her and take it up as a challenge to work on yourself and be a better version of yourself. She was in your life just to push you towards betterment and thatβs all.
Hope youβre doing okay
Thanks for your wordsβ¦
I am trying to level up my best.I hate her for dumping me but i want to forgive her and lead my life without bothering about her.
Itβs a personal journey yaarβ¦ Jab pehli baar toota tha usko blame kiya. Fir likhte padhte itni maturity aayi ki samajh aa gya. Ab milte hain mutually, judaa hote hai mutually bas blame nhi karte. Aur ek baat yaad rakhna do acchhe log zaroori nahin ki ek kaabil mukammal rishta bna hi paayeinβ¦ Aur asafal namukammal rishta unke bure hone ka saboot bilkul nhi.
- Piyush
If you read, read more of Western Philosophy and Zen Kwons. The fundamental life learning stuff. That will help you handle emotions better. One becomes aware of things and mature enough to analyse and accept things of how they actually are.
I will try reading them and thanks for your suggestion βΊοΈ
it @illu
Just accept that it has ended . And stop thinking about trying to make her jealous , if you really loved her then this thought wouldnβt have come to your mind . I cant say that i understand your situation but i have an idea what you are going through β¦ its tough but you have to be strong and try to forget what happened
Bro if you love her thereβs no need to make her jealous coz if ur doing that youβll show that ur ego is more stronger than your loveβ¦am suffering from past 2 years for a girl still i love her and it never comes to my mind that i have to make her feels regret or jealousβ¦just focus on yourselfβ¦i know its very tough but we have to do it anyway
