I got spiked and argued with my partner when it happened, I’ve told her time and time again that wouldn’t have happened if I wasn’t spiked, arguing has lasted for a month or so, I don’t know what to do anymore. She’s agreed her friends helped escalate and cause issues but won’t do anything to prevent them from doing it again. With trauma from almost dying due to it, I am also dealing with threats of getting broken up with over it because of a “loop”. She also says she wants to end things because her mental health from the event.
I had started abusing drugs to help me sleep which I am no longer doing, I have been to the doctors to get help for this. But there has been points where I’ve been too scared to sleep because of what happened and my girlfriend keeps giving me threats and while I see why I just don’t know what to do to help her because it all feels very one sided.
There’s been a loop of me trying to help her and justify things but she turns it into a argument then blames me.
