I freaking looooooooove mountains but I hate the journey to them . Screw you motion sickness:/

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Hello, I am a college going middle class girl. I thrived for a better person in myself, making me believe that by asking various people of the weird or bad things they observe in me, with which by improving I'll be able to help myself. At first it went fine, when people said what they felt and I introspected it in myself, making me carry forward with the changes I felt relevant enough and ignore the rest. Until I started getting confused and lost, between who I am in reality and what I presumed myself to be, between what is relevant enough to adapt and what to ignore, between whether the points mentioned by someone are concerned with me or are they reflection of their insecurities.
Being an extreme extrovert and highly expressive I had huge group of friends and many close ones too, but today I have lost it all in this fight within myself. I have no long term bonds anymore, I barely have people around me anymore. And this is really tough for me, from being a people's person to to be all by myself.
Today I am just occupied with these tug of war instead of focusing on my crucial period of making my career.  I need your help.

Confusion

So I've been talking to this guy for a while and we both seem to be getting along really well. We plan to go on date soon and I'm excited but worried because I have a facial scar on my forehead and it's not noticeable in my pictures and it's only noticeable when I'm face to face with someone. I don't think he knows I have it and I don't know if I should let him know or not because I don't want it to come as a surprise to him or seem like I was catfishing. I am worried that if he sees it he'll find it unattractive and be less attracted to me. So should I let him know about it before we meet up or let him find out when we see each other (I am a bit insecure about it)

Today one of class mate got shot dead in encounter he was trying to loot a gold  shop 
He fired on police when they tried to capture him and in self defence police encountered him 
He was good in studies and sports and belong to a good family  
God knows how can someone do such things

Guys I am not able to move on from my ex girlfriend , please suggest me something, I am really super stressed , it's been 3 months now and i am still stuck 

Breakup

Im going through a break up and I dont have a social life. Its really difficult 😥 I feel lonely all the time. I just wanna cry im all alone 

It's unfair when other people grow up with a mom and dad and siblings in your own house. 

Anxiety

Confused about feelings for boyfriend and I really really need help please. Don't ignore this post. So I remember that when I got into a relationship with my boyfriend 2 years ago I was very very in love with him like deeply but now I am confused about feelings for boyfriend. So what happened was that three months ago I met another guy who is extremely kind and concerned for me and we became best friends. During this time me and my boyfriend fought a lot. It went to a point that everyday I used to think when the next fight will happen within the next 24 hours. I used to count on it and be shocked if a fight did not happen perhaps I even created some fights. Like why are relationship so confusing I am confused about feelings for boyfriend because this new guy seems so kind and very fun loving. I talk to my boyfriend about this fighting issue and it seem like there was no end because we fought about this fighting issue too. I love this guy but I don't feel that we are compatible and I do not see it long term. Like his family is so different from mine. He has grown up in a family that always fights which is what he is doing in a relationship too. Does not understand that I get anxious when there are fights which is why he does it again and again even if I told him and communicated this to him multiple times. Every time we fight the second guy consoles me and it's so kind because he is my best friend and he knows the issues between the both of us and also understands my fears of a fight.

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