I found out that my boyfriend did a disrespectful thing to me. He was playing truth and dare with his friends, his dare was to seduce a guy’s girlfriend and he grinded on her (she was sitting and he was on her with his ass on her laps). He says it was not intentional and he did it only as a dare and he’s sorry and it won’t happen again. I cried alot and i don’t know what do.
Ahh that’s a tough one
He shouldn’t have done that in the first place. Are you okay buddy? Do you think his apology seems genuine?
It is genuine cause he has never done anything disrespectful but I don’t know if I’m ready to apologize or is it a forgivable thing?
Do you think it counts as cheating or just disrespectful?
I think, more than that, like leaving aside the whole relationship spectrum, it just says a lot about the individual. I mean I hope I don’t offend you but he seems like the type of guy who would grind on another girl just for a dare. If you ask me, that’s a little desperate. But maybe he genuinely didnt want to hurt you, maybe he’s sincere. That’s upto you to decide. The thing I can help you with would be processing your feelings. Do you feel a little better?
Yeah a little better I think
That’s great! Take your time, figure these things out. It will eventually be alright I promise.
I don’t want to lose him but I’m just taking my time, I don’t want to jump on a decision too soon. I need time with self to feel things.
That’s a very good call! I’m glad you’re not in a rush and are taking time to process how you feel and trying to understand if this is something that can happen again in the future. I really hope he doesn’t hurt you any further/ I hope you have the courage to make the right choice. Much much much love to you 💕