I found out that my boyfriend did a disrespectful thing to me. He was playing truth and dare with his friends, his dare was to seduce a guyβs girlfriend and he grinded on her (she was sitting and he was on her with his ass on her laps). He says it was not intentional and he did it only as a dare and heβs sorry and it wonβt happen again. I cried alot and i donβt know what do.
Ahh thatβs a tough one
He shouldnβt have done that in the first place. Are you okay buddy? Do you think his apology seems genuine?
Esha @secretsenpai
It is genuine cause he has never done anything disrespectful but I donβt know if Iβm ready to apologize or is it a forgivable thing?
Esha @secretsenpai
Do you think it counts as cheating or just disrespectful?
I think, more than that, like leaving aside the whole relationship spectrum, it just says a lot about the individual. I mean I hope I donβt offend you but he seems like the type of guy who would grind on another girl just for a dare. If you ask me, thatβs a little desperate. But maybe he genuinely didnt want to hurt you, maybe heβs sincere. Thatβs upto you to decide. The thing I can help you with would be processing your feelings. Do you feel a little better?
Esha @secretsenpai
Yeah a little better I think
Thatβs great! Take your time, figure these things out. It will eventually be alright I promise.
Esha @secretsenpai
I donβt want to lose him but Iβm just taking my time, I donβt want to jump on a decision too soon. I need time with self to feel things.
Thatβs a very good call! Iβm glad youβre not in a rush and are taking time to process how you feel and trying to understand if this is something that can happen again in the future. I really hope he doesnβt hurt you any further/ I hope you have the courage to make the right choice. Much much much love to you π