I finally told someone that I was molested as a child & it caused me to have certain behaviors, which I don’t use to excuse them but i understand why I did the things I did as a child.
That’s not who I am anymore, I think one day I’m going to talk to my cousins because I don’t think they’re bad people. They didn’t mean to hurt me, someone showed them those behaviors.
I can’t imagine what you must have gone through, but you’re a strong , kind and thoughtful person . Kudos to you for putting up such front. And yes , someone or something must have shown them those behaviors, it’s necessary to find the root cause. Only then you can uproot it.
I appreciate you