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A potato @raa

I fell in love with my senior , 3 years ago. We met on ig. We were just chatng like junior-senior n then started getting attracted to each other. One day i found out that evrybody in the campus except me, knows that he has a girlfriend. Since i ws a fresher i didn’t know much about campus couples.
I asked him if he is in a relationship. He said evrybody thinks that i am in relationship with that girl. but the truth is that we broke up. We are just friends now. In the beginning i didn’t trust him. But somehow he made me trust him. Because day n night he used to text n talk to me so i thought he never had time to talk to othr girls. i trusted him.
One day he graduated n for the higher studies he got admission in a college n i ws surprised to know that his girlfriend ( who i know as his ex) has also got admitted to the same college, same department. many times I taunted him abt this. But he was like " i dont care about what others think , for me what you think is important. So please trust me". I melted n trusted him. Later whenever he used snap his frnds she ws in that group . I felt jealous but tried to control. They both with one another girl used to hang out often but i trusted him. Yesterday night he was with his ex n one other girl in a pubb i guess. Now i’m feeling like i’m being cheated on. Am i “the othr woman” in his life?? I never want to be the one.
I have exams in a month n i can’t concentrate. I have been crying from last night. I dont knw what to do…

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Anonymous

Tera to bohot bura kata yaar…
Just take him as a timepass then dont get affected with him.

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A potato @raa

I am thinking of doing the same… acting like i don’t know anything but will try to do the same what he has done with me.

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Atharv Kishor @laurel

Yaa actually you should do…“JAISE KO TAISA”

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A potato @raa

Exactly.

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Anonymous

Aage kuch baat badhe to batana it seems to be interesting 🤭

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Anurag @dead_x

Damn 💀 try doing nothing atleast till ur exams r over … like don’t try to get to truth until ur exams r done…

First get done with ur exams cause parents r who u should make proud first so lol do it and then find the truth cause knowing the truth before will make u think more and will lead u to more questions…

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A potato @raa

Yes… I have to clear my exams first… Thank you…

md Mizan @mizan

Sorry to say but you are cheated by that guy… and my advice is that forget this and make a aim of your life to achieve the best and study for your exam…

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A potato @raa

Yes… Thanks a lot.

md Mizan @mizan

Your most welcome and as a friend i can help you as much i can

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Anonymous

Heyyy
Listennn
Soo let’s just not assume things okay?
not until your exams are over
Then you can do something about it
Right now just know that he’s just being friends with her maybe
Because if something happens now it’ll ruin your studies and your exams and you definitely don’t want that
And if you both had talked all day he might actually like you
Annd after your exams are over tell him you wanna make your relationship public (you don’t have to do this fr, but just to see his reaction) and tell him that you both should behave like couples in the campus too
And his reaction will prove it all, I believe
And yeah if its not in your favor
know that your life his much more than that guy and f him

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A potato @raa

Thank you… this ws needed… I’m gonna try this…

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Anonymous

You’re welcome 🤍
and ik what you’re feeling
I’ve been through this too girl
My ex cheated on me
Sooo just try to focus on your studies anndd give your best in your exams

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A potato @raa

Thank you so much❤️

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aprajita @aprajita09

Hi,I know it hurts and to trust someone nowadays is difficult.You have to take a decision about it because no matter how much U love him,if that love is hurting you,it better to move on.
As your exams r approaching you should concentrate on that and when ever this feeling comes just tell your mind to wait and you will come back to that all emotional chaos but later,this will ease your mind and you can study I hope.
Tell him also what’s going on in your mind,seek help from him as a friend.
All the best just train your mind dear it can be tamed well.

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A potato @raa

Thank youu🥺❤️

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Ved Shukla @ve_ddddd

Hi are you okay. It’s okay to feel cheated or disheartened at times but trust the pure feelings and love you had. If not him then someone else shall but you’ll receive it back. Don’t worry. The God watches upon you. And regarding feeling low. Every other person feels bad these days and ig that’s why we’re here to help and foster love towards each other so don’t worry and don’t cry. You’re beautiful creation of the universe, you shouldn’t cry much! Okay? Take care and we all understand and love you my friend 😊👍

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A potato @raa

Thank you so much🥺

Shristi Singh @shristi300...

Confront that girl(whom he told you was his ex) and the guy too and sort these things asap because having these things in mind will distract you a lot from your exams. These things are temporary but you gotta focus on your exams and studies

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A potato @raa

Thank you🥺

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Shivam Verma @harsh_007

The fact is that your are just a backup for him so
I know it is like impossible thing
But yeh you have to leave him and make friends with whom u may engage throughout the day so you can concentrate on your studies and watch movies like Minna Bhai MBBS and Shaadi me jaror aana.

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A potato @raa

Sure… thank you…

Rahul @rahul2569

Yes agreed

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Anonymous

Try to break up with him. Of he doesn’t comes back for you then ( ik rlly sorry to say this) you definitely are other girl and u just got played around and he never cared about you or your feelings. I’m rlly sorry. Be strong…

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