I fell for a wrong person. All this while I was imagining having an emotional connection with him but he is just a fuckboy. All he wants is a girl to fuck and doesn't matter who will it be.
All this while I have been so patient with him thinking he is just shy to express bur turns out he is an asshole. Now I feel like a fool because I don't know what to do about my feelings because he definitely doesn't deserve them. I deserve better than him and someone who will love me for me and not someone just looking to fuck with me or my feelings.
How to unlove now?

That's what he intends on, but bruh, you need a personality for that if you don't have the looks

I've to say i took it well, but I am not the same way personally

It didn't start tbh, my fault I got too much attached

Knew him since a long time, friend of my friend, but didn't know about the intentions, i thought its all good innocent love like that in movies. But damn, i hate my own generation sometimes

You're doing the first step already, good job! Recognize your self worth and learn to be happy with yourself, don't ever settle for anyone who's not gonna love you for all of you. He doesn't deserve you, so just stop talking to him and keep living your life how it was before him

The Golden step to unlove someone is block them from all your social media and circles & don't try to stalk them 

I have being with a wrong man too but after break up i discovered that is a lessons of life to don't give our selfs and our emotions to anybody to be more careful  in choosing our partner in life CHOOSE THE ONE WHO DESERVE OUR HEART.
It's not our fault.
 He losed a pure heart .


Relationships

Should I text him? He said we can talk as a friend, but whenever I talk to him I feel the same way the way it was. 

Breakup

So i couldn't love someone truly or passionately even after 6 months. But that person loves me to much. I just wanted to leave even i realised that but that relationship was left on bad note . I wanna be good person again don't wanna mess things up . I tried my best to fall in love with him . I just couldn't . All my efforts are in drain. I just don't know what to do . I really feel like giving up on myself completely . I feel guilty and dead from inside. I really tried my best but I couldn't do it completely. I know what loving someone deeply means like but i can't be like that anymore . Cause one of my ex boyfriend cheated on me . Obviously I didn't cheated on him but I couldn't love him completely. Either give me some solution or should I punish myself. 

3am Thoughts

Can we really get over someone ? I've been trying to let go of someone but the moment I get better, my past keeps popping up always. Even if I try to run away from them, they encounter me somehow. It's really hard to unlove them when all you watch them daily. Sure I have cleared all the pics, the chats and try desperately each day to move on ahead in life, but a glimpse of them somehow weakens me. I never know will this get any better or is it just going to be like this till the very end.

I am missing my ex rn byt He is an asshole and a horrible person. Whyyyyyyyyy

Lonely

So i have a relationship where everything is going like ok ok but now i thought to tell him that where is he going wrong so i did soo but now it is reflected in a way wherein he dont even pick my call , or even text back ....
Let me know your suggestions????


Misunderstanding

I met someone through bumble and I kinda liked him... I made it very clear to him by saying it out aloud that I'm not looking for anything casual or flings or hookups... I'm on the app for something real... He probably didn't think I was being true... It was really cold so I offered him my sweat shirt after he left me home and said he'll return it later... The next day he called me and said he'd like to return it, however due to night travel restrictions, he said he won't be able to go home... I initially said don't come, however later after he said we won't sleep amd just sit and talk, i said what harm will it be... So called him... He returned my sweatshirt and we started watching something on netflix... After about 2 hours he made his move... I'm unaware if he got some signal from me... I tried avoiding it and even said no and stop, however he kept making and move and I got carried away too... We just kissed and made out... Next day i made him breakfast and post having his breakfast, he left... Almost 24 hours and no text... I'm sure he won't text me or call me... I'm feeling so weird and I've literally stopped myself from crying almost 4-5 times in the day just cursing me 😭

Now&Me Feedback

Been feeling kinda low for a few days..just been home all day doing nothing in particular. Feeling sad and depressed. Obviously because of how my relationship ended back in Dec 2021. And that's the problem. Its been almost 5 months since the BU and I still feel like shit. I just can't seem to get out of the cycle of sadness and wondering what he is up to?why did he leave me?is he ever coming back?(he left out home country to study) etc etc.. I was telling a friend of mine who knows him and she said " you can't seriously be still talking about him 5 months later.." it got me thinking that this is why people suffering from depression/anxiety hardly tell anyone what they going through.. I honestly feel like there's no one I canI talk to because they probably all will say the same thing. Makes me kind of embarrassed that till now I'm still sad amd depressed...🤷‍♀️😣😞. 

When I was a child, I have a wish - to meet at least one person who shares the same birthday with me.

So I have this friend - Paul, he is one of the person who have the highest position in our company.

He made my wish come true and we became friends because of that.

I was a newbie that time and he have this habit of checking out his people and chatting with them, and so, one time he visited our area. To cut the story short, we were both surprised when I told him my birthday that he even thought I was fooling him because everybody knows his birthday and I told him I'm not lying, I even showed him my ID! HAHAHAHA

From then, he never forget about me. He sends me greetings on holidays, he checks out on me from time to time, etc. I'm just a little uncomfortable that our closeness might start an issue that's why I don't approach him first and I don't look forward on anything. But regardless, I'm happy and proud to have a friend like him. With our friendship, there's no superiority. I never once felt that he look down on me. He is smart. He is fair. He is good. He is rare. Just like our birthday.

2 days before our birthday (this year), I surprisingly saw him at the office. I'm in the middle of a meeting and he just got back from a client visit and I literally excuse myself from the meeting when he asked me to go and catch up in his office. That's how I can be easily caught off guard. I'm so shocked on that moment because I have a lot on my mind. I never imagined I'd see him again after years of pandemic and it's just days before our birthday and I don't want to be involved with him.

My plan of going home as early as I could that day didn't happen because we talked for an hour and I still have to meet my friend after my shift. But it was fun. I made sure to prepare a lot of reserved energy to meet people when coming back to office.

And now, I just got a conversation with him, he's asking if I'm already back in the city and looking forward to catch up or have a lunch with him. He even told me 'I give you your copy of “Homer” when we meet next.' and I told him he didn't have to do that. 

I just don't want other people to see it the wrong way. To misinterpret us. To mock us. Yes, idc abt what they would think but at least for me, our friendship is real and pure.




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