I feel so bad right now. I consider this guy to be my friend, so what happened today was he came over after office to pick up some stuff. He knew I was upset about something the whole day, as soon as he came in he gathered his stuff and was like okay I’m going… didn’t even bother to ask what was making me upset. While he was leaving I told him I’m not feeling well, feeling kinda feverish, he was like okay meanwhile I got a call and after that he left. I obviously wanted him to stay back because I was not feeling well both mentally and physically, but I didn’t ask him, because he was in such a hurry to leave that he didn’t even bother. I feel so bad right now, I would have stayed even if that person was not even a hoo friend of mine. And he is like we are good friends…is this what you do if you are good friends??
Maybe he just thought you needed some space. I have a couple male friends that when they see me upset, they just ignore or head out so that they don’t accidentally say something to hurt me or if they feel they can’t handle the situation on their own.
That was kind of a poor thing of him to do though, to leave without asking if you wanted to talk about it or not. I hope you were able to talk to him later about it!
I’m not…I have been crying since then… I feel like telling him all this, but at the same time Hoping it doesnot turn into an agreement
