Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

i feel so bad . i made a boyfriend hes a simple guy . at starting he used to put efforts but he isignored me very much and till now he never takes me serious , he never texts me by himself asking me what i m doing and how my day is …he goes days without talking and when i become mad about hes not texting me then he acts like i m overreacting . he sayd its like nibba nibbi if we talk evertime , he ll say we have othr responsibilities also to do in life other than keep on talking , but honestly he doesnt text me once also in a day and we barely talk for 3 mins in a day …it makes me very sad and insecure … he never calls me also , today i asked him if i can call he said no but still i did called him and then he got bursted that he cant maintain relationship he wants normal life and brokeup with me…what am i suuposed to do , i just wanted his time , am i toxic?