i feel so bad . i made a boyfriend hes a simple guy . at starting he used to put efforts but  he  isignored me very much and till now he never takes me serious , he never texts me by himself asking me what i m doing and how my day is ..he goes days without talking and when i become mad about hes not texting me then he acts like i m overreacting . he sayd its like nibba nibbi if we talk evertime , he ll say we have othr responsibilities also to do in life other than keep on talking , but honestly he doesnt text me once also in a day and we barely talk for 3 mins in a day ..it makes me very sad and insecure .. he never calls me also , today i asked him if i can call he said no but still i did called him and then he got bursted that he cant maintain relationship he wants normal life and brokeup with me...what am i suuposed to do , i just wanted his time , am i toxic?

Depression

It took me a long time to realize that not everything in life is meant to be a beautiful story. Not every person we feel something deep and moving with is meant to make a home within us, and is meant to be together forever. Sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how to love; and sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how not to love. How not to settle, how not to shrink ourselves ever again. Yes, sometimes people leave, but that's okay, because their lessons always stay, and that is what matters. That is what remains.

3am Thoughts

Is it bitchy/ crazy to want my partner to pay half of the bills down to the dollar and to keep track of that? Like I feel that I’m paying for 80% of the bills. But fiancés is such a sensitive subject for us. At what point do you let it go ? I just hate feeling more like a mother than a gf

Girlfriend

The kind of missing and still can't tell him.


I am 26 stuck in one job for last few years . Contemplating quitting and starting something new . Have some ideas. But everytime I am ready to quit they keep me there by offering something but as long as work there, my health declines and I don't enjoy it .

Career

Can someone tell me where I can watch c-dramas, k-dramas and anime without having Netflix? 
There are many shows I want to watch but don't know how 🥲

Other

For the past year I've been feeling so much anxiety. It comes and goes, but lately it has been around a lot and disappears for only one day to one week until it comes back again. I have a friend group of three (including me) and we've had some troubles trying to understand each other's behaviours and thoughts in many different areas.
The reason why I suffer from anxiety is because I fear being left out and becoming abandoned by my friends. All the time I feel like most of the things I say and do are somehow wrong, for example my opinions. Sometimes I get eye-rolling, weird looks and passive-aggressive answers and now and then I feel like I'm being left out of the whole conversation when it's the three of us.
Nowadays I'm afraid to even talk sometimes because I fear I will get these reactions from my friends. Most of my life I've desperately tried to avoid conflicts but it seems like there always appears to be at least one (rarely major unes, but still) when we three discuss about anything. When it's only two of us, it's easy and nice, but when we're all together the atmosphere is often tense and slightly judging.
Does any of you suffer from a similar situation? Or has suffered? Please tell me about it and if you have solutions or ways to ease the anxiety, I'd be more than happy to hear about them. In case it matters, we are all adults in my friend group.

Mental Health

It's hard not to compare ourselves with others isn't it? A lot of the times i feel like my friends are so far ahead of me and i'm still far left behind struggling.
Been trying to tell myself that everyone has their own different pace in life, but still, this uneasy feeling keeps coming 😣

Frustration

I had a fight with my coworkers yesterday. It make me feel so bad about it. I don't know if what's going to happen in the future. But it did effect my sleep a bit. I feel so bad for these two days. I guess not getting along with your coworker is not that good, to be honest. Hmmm.......

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