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I feel really insecure. I haven’t had the best luck when it comes to love and it has affected my self-esteem in a really bad way. I’ve had two boyfriends and both of the relationships ended because they cheated. The first boyfriend cheated on me with some girl and then left me to be with that girl. The second boyfriend had affairs and he also tried to have sex with my friend. Then he took naked pictures of me and showed them to his friends. These events have left a permanent mark on me and I can’t stop blaiming myself. I feel like I’m not enough for anyone and that’s why they cheat. I have never felt this depressed and insecure before. Is it possible for me to start loving myself even after all these things? How do I get a better self esteem? Am I ever going to be enough?

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Anonymous

I’m really sorry that you had to go through all this girl🥺 You know there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you’re enough and you’re so damn strong! Sometimes we all tend to make the wrong decisions and they hurt us to the core but we’ve learnt our lesson right? At least in future you’ll be more cautious about all this. You SHOULD NOT blame yourself for all this, those guys were just perverts that they did all this to you, it was THEIR FAULT and you deserve much better than them. You deserve all the happiness and all the love from the right person and trust me with time you’ll find your right person. Just give yourself as much time you can give and do things that make you happy. Watch the sky and sip some coffee, listen to good music, read a book, treat yourself with good food, do some self care you know? Some mask and skin care🤩 Just start loving yourself more and more! The day you’ll love yourself the most eventually you’ll be happy and slowly you’ll come out of the dark side. Just take good care of yourself! You’re enough!! Never think you’re not enough!! You did best you could for them but they still cheated it’s their loss not yours, YOURE AMAZING OKAY?
Have a great day ahead🌼

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@kezme

Thank you❤️ The last relationship ended a year and a half ago and I still haven’t gotten over it. My friends think I should just move on and forget them but I don’t know how. Last weekend I was drinking at a bar and I saw my ex with his new girlfriend and I just lost it. i couldn’t stop crying and I have been really sad after that. I just want to move on and be happy. But I guess it’s gonna take a while…

Anonymous

I can understand sometimes these feelings do disturb us, but just wish him well from within and don’t look back. I know it’s tough but you deserve someone better who’s going to love you immensely🌼 stay calm and stay positive, keep doing things that make you happy!