I feel really bad right now. My bf asked me for nudes which really surprised me because that has never happened before. And I said no, so now we aren’t talking. I’m scared of two things: that he’ll want to break up with me and I can’t handle that if he does. Or he might cheat on me with someone who is willing to. I don’t know what to do. Should I send it just to keep him or should I not?
Please I really need someone’s advice. It’ll mean a lot to me right now.
Heyyy, sweetie, I totally understand which position you’re in right now. I’m going to give you the best advice someone gave me: choose yourself. Always choose yourself. If he doesnt respect your choices or is that lustful, is he even worth it? Plus, do you really want a relationship that is so weak, a single picture can break it?
If he’s potential enough to chase after other girls just over a single nude, then let him. You deserve someone who respects your choices, is loyal to you and doesnt make you uncomfortable.
Much love to you <3
I’m sure a relationship whose foundations shiver on the matter of nudes is not something you should be very much concerned about. Guys are a bit forward with these things but a person who puts this much value on nudes is certainly not a reliable person. Take care of yourself, you’ll get clarity soon
i know this is blunt and complicated to apply in real life but if he cant respect your decision to allow consent to your own body, leave that mf
First things first if you are not comfortable with doing that please do not try to convince yourself otherwise, and if he isn’t talking to you because of that he isn’t the one for you because a guy who truly likes you isn’t going to want you to be uncomfortable under any circumstances. If he wants to break up with you over that then he truly doesn’t like you the way you think he does and if he cheats then he’s EXTREMELY thirsty and you do not need to be with someone like that. The nudes are more important than your relationship and you should not deal with that.
Send bobs and vagana