I feel lonely still being in a relationship... Sometimes my partner doesnt care about me.

being with them still we feel lonely.. and they dont care.

Hi guys hope you are doing well. I have to address something the thing is I am attached to my boyfriend and he is leaving for states to work so it will be long distance for that I want to lessen the attachment I have for him and also because what if he abandons me, nowadays how much ever your partner convinces that they will not leave they leave so I want to be prepared for this as later it's very difficult for me so is there a way to be less attached 

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How to deal which parents who keep on taking desicion for your and keep on manuplating you to follow there decision.

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I was in a relationship for past 3+ months when I met her in college for a short term course, she came to delhi to attend it and eventually we fall in love....but she was the one who chased me and my attention initially and things started moving more deeply....we spent very good time with each other...we used to talk almost whole night....chat whole day whenever possible....meeting up every alternate days / weekends......then one days she opened up about her very bad past relationship with someone for 6+ years with whom everything was decided and they will marry soon...but things went wrong and they decided not to continue anymore but as per her they never breakup formally ....she never contacted him nor he contacted her, now because of this she is having very bad mood swings every 3-4 days and it was manageable initially when we got into relation.
but now since last month ...she is like I don't want any relationship and she want to to be alone as she says his past memories are still afresh and she can live with that, she said this to me earlier also but more in a casual way but this time it's like that she don't even want to talk on call nor even in a good way on chat....only talks to the point and no personal questions.
if I don't text her she never text me....even many a times she had blocked me everywhere for days and then unblock sometimes just to ask about the course.
I really love her and it feels like I can't live without her....I am having sleepless nights , crying and my mind is fully occupied even on the days in my office with her memories.
she had now shifted to her hometown in assam and no plans coming back to delhi as of now.
I really don't know what to do now.
Please help me 🙏

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