i feel like the backup option in the lives of all my friends, no one seems to think of me as the first option. they all have close knit groups with each other, I am not part of any. they still like me, but from a distance. no one seems to be wanting my company. what am I doing wrong.
Don’t think as a third wheel .
Find another friend who would think you as a first option
It’s so sad that you’re having such a hard time right now. Fortunately, even though the pain you’re suffering today feels unique to you, it actually isn’t-
“What has been is what will be,
And what has been done will be done again;
There is nothing new under the sun.” -Ecclesiastes 1:9
This means that if others in similar or even worse conditions found the help they needed to take control of their lives so can you. Question is, what are you willing to give up to become the very best version of yourself?
