I feel like people at my work place think that Iβm a little dumb because it takes a little while for me to understand a problem when theyβre explaining it to me. They say things like βwhy are you so confused?β or βare you even understanding what Iβm saying?β. I feel like everyone understands instantly whatever is happening but I have to take time to process the whole thing. Even I sometimes feel like Iβm stupid and everybody donβt like it when they have to explain each thing to me. I get a little conscious and afraid that I must listen carefully so that I can understand each of the things they are saying and accordingly give my views. How can I know if Iβm dumb or smart?
I also take a lot of time to understand, need to go through as many times required to get it. But eventually that helped. Now I understand the process better than anyone else and I train all the new associates. N I give them enough time to engulf it.