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I feel like…i overdid in every relationship i had. Kinda over loved and made the person so easy that all their efforts died in what? Like weeks?..idk …i lack self love too…

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Hi, first, the problem is not you so don’t blame yourself. Second, you should stop for a minute, take a deep breath and learn to love younself more. You have to love yourself before you give, everything to somebody else. And then and only then you will find that person for you.

“Life’s a climb, but the view is great” -Hannah Montana,The Movie

Goodluck 👊


Hi. I absolutely understand. I’ve felt that way for the longest time too. But tell me this, is it fair to you if you constantly feel like holding back in any relationship? To always feel like you should do ‘less’? To me, that’s really unfair. I like to believe that everyone deserves someone who sees them for who they are, and accept them as they are. When it’s the right relationship, it won’t ever feel ‘too much’. And I think you’re really powerful to give people all that love. To me, love is the biggest super power, and you’re a superhero. Don’t be apologetic for how you are. I’m proud of you, and I hope you find someone who makes you feel like you’re enough, because you are. 🌻


You just need to talk to some one. I feel the same too. Expressing out calms the mind and soul. Talk to anyone dearer or anonymous. But do speak out.