I feel like a bird put in a cage
Wings cut off …
Just because food and some love is showered on time
Not ready to grow wings
Hurting myself by plucking my own wings…
Scared about falling and other elements and not giving up the warmth…
Take care
I can clearly understand your situation. I am/was in the same situation. But now I am working towards betterment by coming out of the comfort zone. You really need to understand that “ITS YOUR LIFE”. You are responsible for your own condition. It’s really of no use to victimize our own self. You have the chance of making your life better. You won’t be getting this time ever again. Just start coming out of the comfort zone if you wish to lead a happy life ahead. Otherwise you will keep regretting the rest of your life.
I have been in this situation for so long
(So many years) it is feeling so hard to get out of this
No progress in life noting changes unless I do
But am not able to change me
Everyday am hitting a new low rather than improvement
Somedays i feel like dye ing is easier 😅
But I know it’s not the solution or I should not think about it
I have been also suffering for years. But seriously nothing is going to change until we decide to put efforts. I have been putting efforts and now I can see improvements. You also try to go hard on yourself and come out of the comfort zone. Just remember you are responsible for your life. No one else can make your life better except you yourself. The life is a journey and you are seated on the driver’s seat. Now it’s completely upto you where you want to go. Think responsibly and make efforts in improving your life. Trust me simply waiting will only make the situation worser. Take responsibility of your life. You can do it!!!
Thank you for your words
I really needed them today
Am 24 and for 4 years have been struck in a slump loop or whatever. Studies wise not able to break the loop of failure. Haven’t really made friends with anyone or nothing fun in life. Am not telling magically life will change
But am hoping I will overcome my procrastination and find a way to come out of my stupid liop.
*loop
I might sound harsh but it’s really enough of hoping. Jab Tak you don’t push yourself no one else is going to. Start taking actions instead of just hoping for things to end someday. That “someday” is tomorrow. You really need to buckle up and prove yourself that you aren’t a victim but a fighter. I will be grateful if you start taking actions towards the betterment in your life instead of thanking me.
I know am not the victim but am the problem
It’s not like i don’t plan
I have solid plans (my frnds have cleared exams because of me teaching them)
If am executing them surely there will be success
But am not able to stick to it even a slightest deviation is happening am not sticking to it
So at the end it’s making it difficult or hard to execute 😭
I m sure you aren’t expecting the life to be a bed of roses. When you get serious in life, life will throw more problems to test you. It seems you are a weak player to get defeated even in the slightest of distraction. Build up a thick skin. Just keep in mind that once you develop resistance towards the distraction then there’s nothing that will be able to stop you from achieving your goals.
Will surely drop an update here in few months
If I get through this phase of life
Thank you
You might not know but
I needed an external push today
Like how much ever we say to ourselves
Sometimes we need an external push or a slap or something
So will drop a message here in few months if I get through this
Sure!!! You can update weekly if you feel like. You really have the potential, please don’t let it go waste. Ups and downs are going to be constant but your desire towards achieving your goals should never decrease. The desire will ultimately make you fight through all the hardships. Start from today itself (i.e. 13.4.24) don’t keep postponing and also don’t give anymore excuses to your self. I wish you all the power and strength. You can do this!!!
No problem
