I don’t understand something so u guys need to help me.
Recently my BF and me were talking about Valentine’s day and he was said that we will do whatever i want and he always does this. He never tries to plan anything along side and leave all the decisions up to me. First i considered it sweet but now it doesn’t feels good. But that’s not the problem for now (pls give me ur opinion on this one too tho).
The problem was i mockingly said that will ur parents let u even come as he stays with his mom. He said he will come only for 5 minutes. In my mind i was like “WTF”! but he was serious. The point here is that he never says anything good /at all about me to his mom and says that I’m his sister. The most sad part (for me) is that he has two friend sisters (they are not their GF. He consider them as sister only) whom he can hang out with for anytime at anyplace and his mom gives him money but for me he has no time and always wants me to pay for everything up. When i asked him this why he does it then he claimed that he knows those 2 girls for very long time (7-10yrs) but i meet him 10yrs back as well but we started to talk in 2018. I don’t understand what’s the point anymore and was very upset after this conversation and having this feeling to breakup.
Disclaimer: My BF is not a mama’s boy (or atleast i don’t think so) as he can’t say a thing about me to her mom.
Seems somethings off with him. Break up if it will make you okay
Idk if breaking up is the right call or not.
May you find the best path forward
idk whats the best path is anymore
Spend some time with yourself, take a break, figure out stuff and move forward 🐱
what if he finds someone else? and leaves me. im not desperate but i dont wanna remain lonely either. i have already went that stage before and its very difficult
I’d love to know if it makes sense or not
That must be definitely hard to go through, but you need to be stronger dear🐈
yeahh… im tryin to. idk if its just the phase but the thought he doesnt wanna say anything about me to his mom makes me sick sometimes. ik him so well (or i think so).
figuring out stuff does but taking break or spending some with myself sort of doesnt. I already took break cuz it was way difficult for me last year to handle things with him. its got better but not normal.
May be try to think a little less and live+love more❤️
I may sound arrogant, but you know what, we’re in the new normal, gotta take it as it is, can’t amend it
ik. thats why i havent said a word about this to him. but its just a feeling
if i can do it, i would have done it.
but still im trying to follow this…
❤️ you’ll come out super strong