I don't need a girlfriend 
I need a life partner 
For entire life 

3am Thoughts

Actually 3-4 months ago my ex return into mylife she left 3-4 times until now , she tell mi how she misses her old ex and other things most of the time we are arugging . I arrgu because she doesn't give me enough time . Any one help how should i make this relationship better.(sorry for poor english😔)

Relationships

I’ve been unemployed for about 6 months and had an email about a customer service role in a big company. The lady asked me to call her if I’m still interested, which I was because I sent my C.V for this role.
I was really excited about it, felt positive that I’m the right person for the job. Did my research and everything. 
So I ring her and introduce myself and she instantly thinks I’m someone she already talked to the day before but I corrected her and told her that she asked me to ring her.
Eventually she remembered who I was, what started as reasonable questions about my studies etc. It then felt as if this lady was attacking my answers about my experience and when I tried to elaborate she didn’t seem interested in listening and found her to be rude and unnecessarily aggressive.
I finished the call with her and my mood has been awful all day i feel completely deflated. Why reach out to me if you saw my C.V. and didn't think i was the right candidate why waste my time and get my hopes up and on top of that make me feel shit about my work experience. 
I can't just get this out my head and try to be positive, it really affected me badly. 
I don't know what to do, i feel like such a failure and I don't have anyone to talk to who understands the frustration i feel. Anyone else been through a similar situation??

Unemployment

Hello everyone, i hope everyone’s safe, i m 18, i am head over heels for a girl, i have never felt this way for anyone else before. She has an ex who entered her life while we were friends, even though she knew abt my feelings for her, she asked me wait and after this her ex came back and she began dating him again, its been 4 months since and everytime she tells me abt their relationship, i feel like a stake is plunged through my heart, like it chips away at my soul, I don’t know what to do, i try to cut the cord, but I can’t seem to do it, every time i try to do it, a small part of heart says that maybe there is hope for us yet. I have always been focused and ambitious in life, but now i just feel vulnerable, all the time.

Love

talked to a girl. can be a future life partner. she seemed so perfect to me. i explained to her why she is the perfect one for me. I am worried what if she does not realise it. I fear that I might not get someone like her. 

Anxiety

Hi everyone , 

I want to know do people accept submissive males especially girls. I am 22 year old having a bit of feet fetish and inclination towards humiliation / pain.  Only to the person I love. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. But , she didn't know that I have a submissive nature. I wanted to open up about it. Like everytime we had arguments I used to tell sorry or ask for forgiveness. Yet she never felt it. But now I tried to open up and she seemed to care less about it. She started treating my relationship as I was just there for her and started seeing other guys. When I ask her not to she is usually like your aren't man enough.  You will be okay to meet my new bf you can lick my foot before him. I am just lost I guess I ruined my relationship. I don't know what to do next. Please share me is she right treating me that way.  How would u treat me if I was your submissive bf or do I need medical help like people in my guy circle told me.  

There's a woman 
We met few months ago and we started connecting with each other. I didn't had any feelings for her and we went very slow 
We understand each other like no one else
I mean I can't describe how genuine the connection is. Everything was going perfect 
We used to hangout for 5 to 6 hours
We are talking on video call until we fell asleep.
I can see it in her eyes and she also knows it.
She took me to an amazing and a calm place yesterday evening. There was a full moon in the sky, it was an amazing place and the weather was also cold. It was a romantic moment 
I don't know how but after sometime we hugged 
And I can't express how it felt. We kissed and it felt so real and it was very passionate from both the sides. And I knew what it was and how I felt 
I expressed her my feelings, she was also happy 
And she wasn't able to believe that she can do this things again. His ex cheated her even after they decided to get married. But she told me that she can't trust again on someone coz of her past experience and she said she doesn't want to lose me but she wants sometime coz her ex is still in her mind. And from last evening things have started to change and now she's acting different. She's warning me on many things like don't be like that you'll get hurt 
Don't do that to yourself and i don't want to be the reason of you sadness etc etc.
I want her and I know it's love 
But i think I've ruined everything by expressing my feelings to her. She thinks how can you be sure it's too soon and i have not gotten over my ex yet.
I think I have fucked up everything but I didn't want to lie. I've been honest to her since day one. 
Is it my fault that I fell in love too soon ?
She's a mature women and she's very clear about things but I think I've lost my chance by expressing my feelings. I want everthing to he like it was before.
I'm fucked up. I always needed a women and I found one.
How can I be with her? 
What should I do to make things good?
How can I get her?
I don't want to loose her coz I know my feelings are real.
What should I do to not to make things worst?


Well I'm in college and I don't know what's going on in life what will happen in the future I'm just feeling lost and ever since my gf started college after school she does not have time for me she's too busy and I understand but it hurts me alot coz I think nobody is too busy if you're their priority ,I'm just hurting. She focuses more on her career and when she's free she hangs out with her friends and not me she does not call me sometimes she tells me she loves me alot and cannot live without me she cries when I tell her how I'm feeling I just feel I'm forcing her to talk to me when I switch off my phone she does not even notice coz she's too busy. I don't really get close to people and have no one other than her in my life she's my best friend and but i don't know what's wrong why I am feeling this way. I just want to vent some stuff out to someone and she's unavailable. 

Girlfriend

I just wanted to get this off my chest.

The year was 2015. I was in high school, and there was this girl that I knew that had a crush on me, because we kinda used to talk and we had friends in common. I kinda neglected her, but not in a rude way, I just didn’t want anything at the time (or I really wasn’t paying much attention). In our school,  we had this thing on Valentine’s Day where people could send anonymous messages in a heart-shaped piece of paper. I received a letter from this girl (even though it was anonymous, I knew it was hers), and after that my vision of her began to change. I started seeing her differently, as I began to like her more and more and more... We ended up dating for a while, and it was amazing, but because we were in high school and kinda nervous around each other, we managed to break up and slowly grow apart (I don’t remember exactly how that happened). After that, it was pretty much downhill, as the years started to go by, she moved to another school, and later to another state. 
This brings me to the end of the year 2020, in the midst of the pandemic. I was reorganising my room, throwing some old boxes out and cleaning things, when I found that heart-shaped piece of paper that I got from her years before. As I read what was inside, a strange feeling was taking over my body. That type of feeling where a whole movie goes through your mind, of all things that happened before/could’ve happened if things had been different. I remembered when we were dating, holding her hand, texting her at night… I became obsessed with this idea that she was the one that got away, and i had to do something about it. I still had her Instagram, so I texted her and sent a picture of the heart-shaped piece of paper, saying something like “I still have this… still think of you”. After that, she appeared to be fond of me contacting her that way after a long time, and we started texting each other like every day. Things were going great, until the day she came to me with the question i was fearing the most “hey, I wanted to ask you… what did you mean when you sent me that picture? Why did you do that?”. I didn’t know what to answer because I myself didn’t really know why I did that, since I knew she wasn’t living elsewhere… but I came clean, saying that I really though we could be together and I really missed her. Her response wasn’t much warm, she basically said she missed me too but didn’t want anything, and that “sometimes it takes a pandemic to do some things”  probably referring to me saying all that stuff. (Continues in the comment section)

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