It sucks stay single forever

Omg sister ! Same !

You don’t have to do it if you don’t wanna

Live in is the best thing.

Similar opinion. I find the notion too restrictive and principly unnecessary. I mean why the heck do I ‘have to’ spend the rest of my life with one person? Isn’t that too big of a burden and playing a little too much with the risk? Sure a lot of them do last, and I love watching romcoms where it’s this fantastic and perfect little story. Who doesnt. But beyond that, a. Can’t it happen despite giving it the label and it being a norm, especially if you have so much faith? That’ll remove problems like women having to be stuck in toxic relationships or continuing to be dependent on their partners. b. Even if it doesn’t happen for us, we won’t feel the need to do it because of societal pressures and your peer circle.

On that note however, don’t you think it’s incredibly difficult though, given that our reality is diametrically opposite and we live in a place where marriage is the absolute norm and we’ll see our friends inviting us to idk Hawaii or Goa in 4-5 years for their wedding, to not succumb to this pressure? Won’t you eventually start looking for mates just so you can ‘settle down’? I mean won’t the reality of it bust our little idealistic bubbles?

I love marriage but I respect your opinion.

I am kind of scared of it.