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shithappens
@shithappens

I don’t know why I always fall in love with the wrong person. I wanna find the right one but how?

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snktmore
@snktmore

I wasn’t able to reply to your question directly so reposting it.

Your question: To be honest, I always end up falling in love with the most unexpected person. Maybe it always comes with friendship first, then eventually turned to love. The sad part, it’s one sided.

Ans: I feel you, but your too kind hearted for this greedy world. The human nature is tuned to love at all time. But, since our childhood we go through many social conditioning which moulds us in different way and provide us with different variations for same feeling in your case love.

Until, someone reciprocates with same tuning as yours it will always be one sided. It is not your fault but their loss. Be the way you are don’t change yourself for others. Keep smiling! You’ll find your true love!

shithappens
@shithappens

I hope to find my true love soon. I guess I have to face more heartaches and deal with one sided love a lot more before meeting that person. But it’s worth it! Thank you for your wisdom. I do appreciate it.

snktmore
@snktmore

You are welcome! True love happens swiftly; when you need to take too many extra efforts to retain your love most probably that’s not it.

pawanism
@pawanism

My dear friends
All of you who have the same intention in the comments below
I tell them something like this has happened to me too and no one else is the reason.
Because those people who always play with us, our emotions, they are smart and like us can never catch them but when there is a good person’s entry in our life, then we think and lose that too. I do not mean to give a chance to every boy that he should come in your life, but it is definitely that when you get a good one, do not ignore him and wish for better.
Everything I’ve said so far has happened to me And because of this I have lost everything because no one gave me opinion. Hopefully you will give time to yourself and don’t be like me.

shithappens
@shithappens

Thank you. Your advice had been a great help. Maybe I need to move on for good. And gave someone else a chance.

pawanism
@pawanism

My appreciation is always with you.

Anonymous

I too fall in love with boys really quick. N I don’t know why? Most of the times they r the wrong ones whom I find the coolest and start having a crush on them. I tried to control myself but I get attached to ppl really quick. Any suggestions?

angel14
@angel14

Same…😔😔. I trust ppl too fast , let them into my life really easily…I need suggestions too

j
@jackschaner

Hey guys.
im with you expect with friends.

Also angel wanna talk on insta?

angel14
@angel14

Now?

j
@jackschaner

Ya if you want. Up to you.

angel14
@angel14

I sent you a msg

snktmore
@snktmore

I read a nice quote on Instagram I guess.

“It’s not you’ve been bad to people; but you never knew where to stop being good”

It’s for you @angel14

angel14
@angel14

That’s so amazing 😍

shithappens
@shithappens

Sometimes I’m tempted to be selfish to save myself from pain.

angel14
@angel14

Yeah ik that feel…n it’s ok…cuz after all we r the heros of our own lives…so yes …it’s normal to avoid the pain …it’s human nature…it’s not selfies

b
@being1nipun

Keep trying

snktmore
@snktmore

What is your definition of love interest? What do you look in a boys nature to fall in love. Just want to know to answer you in a better way!

shithappens
@shithappens

To be honest, I always end up falling in love with the most unexpected person. Maybe it always comes with friendship first, then eventually turned to love. The sad part, it’s one sided.

n
@nandani

@snktmore
i went through ur thoughts on different posts…
your thoughts are so deep
good to see a person like u … helping others by giving ur suggestions🙃

snktmore
@snktmore

I’m glad you felt that way! Thanks a lot it means lot to me.🥂😇

n
@nandani

I know its too direct… but can i get your no.?

snktmore
@snktmore

I’m available on Snapchat/instagram with snktmore username.