I don’t know where to go, so writing it in here.
My husband is taking his mom with him to make her stay with us. We just got married recently. It’s just one and half months. i had to stay with his mom once before marriage for 25 days, and in those 25 days, she showed me hell. I wasn’t even married to him at that time. She criticized me for everything, right from how I use washroom to how i seat to my cooking… everything. I was pursuing my PG at that time, i had to do a lot of work on my laptop, whenever i used to work for my presentations or anything, she used to taunt me about those. And now as I am married to the guy, i have to stay with the lady. She made my cry many times due to her behaviour towards me. My head is exploding. I find myself always thinking about the future scenarios when she will be here. It’s just another 13days and they are gonna be here. Can’t take it anymore.cant run away also. I don’t know what to do. Can’t talk to my husband about this also. Whenever i tried talking, he criticized me saying i have a very bad mentality. I can’t take it anymore. my brain is just not working properly. I don’t know where to go.
This is the situation were you have experienced bad days and that experience is taunting you that same experience is going to repeat. You r making a film in your imagination and surrendered to it.
Yes it will happen again if you don’t stand up to her and your husband. Only think you need is courage and different way to handle the situation