I don't know what to do my husband is talking to other girls on Instagram & tinder (soooo many girls)
He is so sweet to them telling them words he never said it to me all through our marriage 
Feeling disaster 

Just confront him. Confrontation can be hard and scary. Especially since your relationship is that serious. But you won't change anything if you keep it quiet. Ask him why he is doing this and tell him how you feel. But it's important to listen to each other. No screaming, nothing. Just a calm conversation. If he raises his voice, tell him "we are mature enough not to scream at each other. I'm not deaf. Keep your voice down"
Good luck

Breakup

 I am a mother of 4 month old boy. Going through a roller coster of emotions daily. Due to some issues my husband started hating my family. We don't have any support from my in laws. Due to intercaste love marriage. My parents live separately. Father has married again. I was brought up by my grand parents as I was the 2nd girl child and was a burden for my parents. I can't really share my feelings with anyone in my family. My sister (elder) and brother (younger) are close to my mom. Me and my husband don't really share any love now a days. We fight every now N then. It's just for the sake if our son we are staying together. I don't see any love for me in his eyes. Since he is not liking my family.. I cannot go to my family's place too. I am restricted to talk or meet them. He has changed his status to single in his social media account. I try and explain him that I want some love and that he is not showing me love. But he doesn't care about my feelings. I don't even go out of the house as I have a baby. I feel stuck. I feel caged. I always wanted some love from people around me.. But I endup in tears. 

Family

I have been married 3yrs and my husband is sort of a pack rat don't wanna throw anything away and it's driving me crazy. He get mad when I ask him to clean behind him self and I don't really say much because I don't want to argue but it's taking a toll on my mental health. I'm sort of a neat freak and he is not. someone please tell me what to do. 

Marriage

My lawyer told me that my divorce will be proceeding next month. I spent half of my life with her, and now shes leaving me for another partner, my life crashed.



Divorce

Hi guys honest opinions please! 
So I got married last year and started living with my husband and inlaws, few months went well and after sometime I got to know my mil has got numerous affairs (she and my fil are divorced) my mil would stay away from the house for days etc and when the relationship would end shed come back home and starts dictating in the house for instance she would come back and start switching off and on the fan/ radiator etc she would start throwing stuff away from the fridges etc and soon as she’d find another man she goes away from the house for days again and start living two lives as in one with that guy in his house and other in the house that we live in, is that acceptable? My husband tried explaining her how wrong it is but then she brings that THIS IS MY HOUSE ID DO WHATEVER I WANT. I find it very disrespectful, my parents don’t know how my mil is carrying on like this, we come from a respectable Muslim family where these are considered abnormal. I’m sick and tired of this toxic home environment, the property we live in is my Fil’s which my mil says is hers and my FIL doesn’t do anything about it. I’m sick and tired of pretending that this all is okay. Idk what to do now cuz I can’t live in such an environment anymore. There’s so much to this story!!! What do you guys think I should do? 

Anxiety

Dear future partner!
Hope you are not like me.
😑

Overthinking

Any law student here?

Acquaintance

Guyes my mom has this problem with one perticular male friend of mine who happens to be my best friend she has not even met him and had developed a sense of hatred for him because of our closeness . She even saw photos of us together where I'm pulling his hair or just choking him to death but she was like what is this why are you soo close you aren't supposed to be soo close what if your future husband sees this what will he say then i was like anyone who becomes my future husband will not mind ok he might be Lil jealous bit certainly he may nit judge me because times have changed and these kind of pictures are normal she was like your husband will divorce you and then you'll suicide kinds of shit she spoke just to win the argument i just didn't continue the conversation feeling it's waste of me speaking to her in this topic. On top of this it's not like I've never tried to get a validation from my mom for my male best friend but she never seems to accept him she doesn't even wanna meet him what type of psycho behaviour is this?
I seriously need your suggestion guyes...

Confusion

Hi, i needed someone to talk to and share what i am feeling without revealing my identity and not definitely being judged. Hope i Have doing a right form.
I am a woman aged 30 married 7 years back. I love my husband. I guess i still do. I am a normal woman i eat normal food and i have normal hormones like any other. But my husband is not like other men. Within first few days of marriage i understood that he s not much interested in romance. But he was being involved.
Sex between us gradually reduced to once a month or only when i ask for it. After a year of marriage he suddenly stoped responding. I decided to wait and see if he will show interest. Months passed, years passed. I was getting mad. I used to cry and sleep most of the night. Fight with him. He knew what exactly i was thinking but he decided to keep quite.
But other than that we were happy couple. Going out, movies, eqt out, pub and all… everything was perfectly normal but that one thing. But sometimes whenever i used to go deep thinking i was getting mad. After 3 years i started talking openly and asked him to get himself checked. Coz there was pressure from family to have a baby and even i wanted a child.
After multiple fights and crying, after our 4th wedding anniversary he finally said he s fine but he was shy to begin. So i helped him feel better and we had sex…!! Life wasn’t any better. His interest level was low only. After couple of months i got pregnant and boom. We are strangers on bed again. I gave birth, baby is 2 years old. And yet we are strangers on bed and extremely happy couples in front of others. And roll models to some too… now i think that he s never going to change and either i have to choose this life or leave him giving my child a different life when there is no father. Which i can’t imagine of. I want my baby to have a normal happy family. But what should i do. Whenever everyone says romantic couple, i get a sharp pain in my heart.
He loves me. He s not gay nor having any affair. He know he has problem. Every month i fight he accepts and he asks for time to change. And he ll be the same person from the next day. He s a gentleman. He respects everyone and treats me well. He s addicted to tv and phone. But he hardly gets time to spend infront of tv these days. Whenever i think of leaving him, he cries holding my hand asking for last chance. He doesn’t have parents and all he has is me and our child. That is the main reason i stayed with him from the beginning of our marriage knowing his condition.
Now me… i love him so much. I obviously expect him to love me and express his feelings. He never hugs me or kiss me unless i ask for it. Only i have to do or ask. There’s no such cute romances in our life. It never was there. Hug from back, kiss on sofa, playing in kitchen, shower together… such small things really matters and it’s all just a dream for me… i can’t see any romantic movies or songs. I immediately break down. Day by day i am going into depression. Sometimes i think of having an affair. I really think of it. And i even told him. But i dont want to do that. I dont want to have that guilt till i die… i am very good looking women so is he. When i go out even with child every men turns and looks at me. So many colleagues of mine appreciates my beauty and talks about my good dress sense, and being fit. But my husband never appreciated. If whenever i ask , he will just say you are always beautiful. And that’s it.
Now after reading my fate, please help me… tell me what should i do. How do i live this lifeless marriage till i die?? I want my child to be happy and get love from both parents. But i dont know how long i can survive in current condition.

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