I don’t know how to put this. I’m 22 and I dated two guys till now. Had sex with both of them. After breakup I only wanted casual related and during that I got intimate with 3 guys within the span of 2 years.
I never cheated anyone or hurt someone. Does getting intimate with a greater number of boys like 5…makes me characterless? Or dumb? Amd what should I do if a friend of mine judge me for this?
Tbh 5 is not such a huge number. And if this friend of yours is truly your “friend”. Then he/she should easily understand that you are old enough to make your own decisions. Stay safe!
Would a girl will say the same??
Yes I’m a girl and I absolutely agree to this. I have been in the same situation which u facing now. And saying about the number 5 I have been intimate with more than that and I’m just 19. Look girl ur friend or many people who don’t even know u will judge you call you a hoe and all stuff. But at last it’s ur choice u want to be same or that one person forever kinda. Ik I can understand their must be some or the other reason you wanted things this way only, tbh at a moment it’s wrong, at a moment it’s good.
See leave about ur exes everyone has sex when they into relationship and it’s like totally normal for people now. Then coming to the other 3 guys, if they expected the same what u had then it’s okayy na no problem for both of u, neither him nor u wanted to make that serious.
Now if any one of you wanted to make it serious but they the other didn’t wanted n that made feel like cheated or hurt then that’s wrong.
And the thing now ur friend judging you y would you let anyone know with how many guys you got intimate. Just keep things to yourself or max to max ur bestfriend the real one not the one just for namesake.
I personally have seen guys where they have sex with you then they’ll judge you like she is a hoe, characterless. And then it’s like man have you seen with how many girls you slept???
Just calm yourself, have faith in you, and please please please don’t revile this numbers and all out. See letting know ur friends that u just into casual things is okay but letting them all in details like number, name of the guys, and all then obviously they’ll judge backname you.
I agree. Thank you for answering.
Are you asking it to that guy or me (the girl )??
Yeah I’ld like to
U can drop your ig handler I’ll ping you there
I have requested pls check
I’m sorry I’m the poster…exactly what conversation took place here??
Some anonymous replied that if we could connect somewhere so we just had a talk where could we connect
Cool
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Numbers don’t make you characterless your relationship does.
You were dating them they were not some strangers so no you clearly not a characterless.
You’re dumb? Maybe you’re a dumb I can’t say for sure.
You don’t need a friend who judges you either leave them or make them understand you didn’t do anything wrong.
It doesn’t matter what u did before it’s just that when u are with someone that time u don’t have to be with some one else.
And nobody has any right to judge u.
U are beautiful asa the way u are.
