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Dc @dc20

I dont know How should i Understand this But the Another Person In my life is behaving Weird now. The person Has come up with the ideas of staying Alone Because She Cant take responsibilites. She is Like I can Only Handle Myself and I cant be with anyone or dont think I will be able to handle the another person in my life. I mean Whats the point of this. Why do people starts behaving this way.

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@yashsaraf

i have been in this position where they don’t talk to you and try to avoid conversation because they feel they wanna be alone, I know it hurts a lot when they change suddenly and you blame yourself for it but things like these are out of control and i guess its better if you try to communicate these feelings to her so that you can get your closure and that way it will make the process of moving on/staying easier for you

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Dc @dc20

I have already told her. And she has already told me That she needs a break and Wanna be alone… Yess it hurts

@yashsaraf

oh this happened with me as well in January and ever since we haven’t been the same but i hope it doesn’t become the same for you and eventually she realises her love for you again and comes back

@yashsaraf

did you ask her what happened or is there any thing you could do and if she doesn’t give any acceptable response i guess you have got no option but to respect her decision and give her the time and break

it hurts i know, even after 5 months it still hurts me but i hope it doesn’t come to that for you guys

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Dc @dc20

Yaaa She is at home her Mom was not well bt now she is ok. But she behaves weird Everytime Situation Comes and always Behaves this way dont know why

@yashsaraf

maybe she doesn’t like to share things she’s going through and likes to deal with it alone, some people dont like troubling others with their issues because they feel weak, or annoying or other reasons.

maybe show her that if situations come you would support her and help her and she can come to you if anything happens and she doesn’t have to deal and go through them alone and that you will always support her and be on her side.

i am glad you guys have sorted it out and are together and fine again😭

@sheena

Expect less Give more.

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Dc @dc20

Expect less Yess I think i should work on this now. Bt its hard coz that person is close to you and then suddenly changes

@sheena

Jab aap pyaar me hote ho to you are a giver. Just say to her - it’s Okay. Whatever you like. I’m here whenever you need. Don’t think much about her and focus on your goals, career, health etc. Tum khud se khush ho? Work on this part. Grow individually.

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Dc @dc20

yaa right

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