i dont even know how or where to start.
i will keep it short. my mom is very against my boyfriend. theres no way to convince her. i used to live with my boyfriend but i didnt want to hurt my mom anymore so i decided to come back home. but either way, its stressing me out so much. what should i do, should i stay here or go back to my boyfriend’s?
Simran @st1199
Hi!
In this case, you, your mother, and your boyfriend all have to mutually decide things.
You should know what’s better for you. Maybe not now but later in life she accepts. Also, I hope you already know the reasons for her not liking him and if the things are pretty serious you should reconsider the whole relationship.
For now, I believe it’s better to be with Mom and visit your boyfriend?
hmm maybe you are right, maybe I should rethink my relationship.
Simran @st1199
Please do. I’ll not ask your age but do think about what you will do next and how is it going to impact your future and mentally too. Is it better to be with him even if I know he does XYZ things or break up and feeling sad but getting over the whole thing. 💛
thank you so much for your words
i knew what i have to do but it wasnt that easy for me to just leave and go back home, because 3 years could be short for someone but 3 years pretty long. i got so used to living with him and now i have to move back to my mom. its hard, and obviously its hard to be apart from my boyfriend. however when i talked about that, my boyfriend said it so easily as if he has no opinion. he just said if thats the only way to make your mom happy then you should just go. and there was no more talk. but if you really love someone, at least give me the feeling that its also hard for him. anyways, and i just packed my stuff and left today.
Simran @st1199
Exactly you know the whole thing. Yes, three years are very much to be with someone but then you also need to see it is better staying for more years to come or the other way out.
Hey, How are you doing now? and How is life in large?
