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Anonymous

I didnā€™t wanted to come in relationship I was single more than 2yearsā€¦ There are so many guys who wanted to be with me but I didnā€™t feel and I was afraid that they will cheat ā€¦ Though I never fell in love before relationships were casual and was kinda infatuation to me and also didnā€™t last long not more than few monthsā€¦ my friends cheated on me, I got cheated alot, so Iā€™m unable to trust anyoneā€¦ But this guy whom I met 3months back, convinced me so much to be with him, he promised that he will never stress me mentally and will be with me in every situation but now he hurts me alwaysā€¦ remains busy never asks me how am I, even if Iā€™m sad and try to say something he says Iā€™m toxic and I always fight šŸ˜” Iā€™m so broken already I have a lot of problems in my own life šŸ˜“šŸ˜”

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Khalid @mskbmh7da

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Oh Man that is so sad. Finally trusting someone and getting treated like this again. I donā€™t know the details but feeling the need of sharing your feelings doesnā€™t make you toxic.

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Anonymous
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He will get angry If Iā€™m busy in some work but he remains free still doesnā€™t really talk nicely to me ā€¦ and most of the time he talks shit keeps discriminating people even me ā€¦ Iā€™m just shockedā€¦ I just canā€™t think that I took such a wrong decision by trusting someoneā€¦ No one can be trusted šŸ˜“

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Carefreehippie @shiuli

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Sorry to say but I think we are enough for ourself why do we need someone to complete us! People arenā€™t worthy of our trust! Isnā€™t it better to stay single?! Atleast that way our hearts are safe.

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Anonymous
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Yes exactly trueā€¦ And I used to think the same but he gave me so much hopeā€¦ But now I see he turn out to be a liar šŸ˜“ā€¦ He himself is a toxic person and blames me insteadā€¦ Always makes me feel bad and hurts me

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Carefreehippie @shiuli

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Sister glad that your aware of the fact that he is toxic! Most of them get so attached to people in relationship that they donā€™t want to accept the truth! Kudos to you! I just hope u get out of the relationship with that guy as soon as possible and lead a peaceful life that you deserve

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Anonymous
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Yes Iā€™m just trying that ā€¦ I Regret it so muchā€¦ Havenā€™t talked to him since we fought 2 days back ā€¦

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anantra ram @anantra

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Let him goā€¦ I know itā€™s not easy as we say but trust me itā€™s worthyā€¦ you are never toxic to someone you mean a lot . Take some time off from everything thatā€™s stressing you. Do what you love to do. Meditate. Give yourself the time to heal. Donā€™t worry. We all have some tough time and just believe that your good days are soon to be found.

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Yeah Iā€™m tryingā€¦ Didnā€™t talk to him since 2 days, since we foughtā€¦ He got angry because I replied late just 5mins late and I was workingā€¦ where as he donā€™t reply for hours and goes offlineā€¦ And that too why he wanted to talk because he was h0r -ny and wanted me to satisfy him ā€¦ Then I was really hurt so I just told him that he doesnā€™t care about me and he started saying Iā€™m very toxic I always fightā€¦ Finally I just told him that stressing someone else mentally wonā€™t bring him peace and didnā€™t talk to him ā€¦ So then he just asked what happened and asked me to call him but I was so hurt that I was unable to talk even I was crying and then itā€™s been 2days just 3 calls and 3msgs 2morning wishes and told me that he misses meā€¦ I didnā€™t reply anymoreā€¦ He didnā€™t even apologize or ask am I hurt or what Happenedā€¦ šŸ˜“šŸ˜“

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anantra ram @anantra

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Donā€™t worry. Prioritise yourself. And things will fall in place. You will surely find happiness

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